Wow, it has been a LONG time since I have been on this website. I realized this morning that it was 5 years ago today that I had my aortic valve replacement ...Read more
Wow, it has been a LONG time since I have been on this website. I realized this morning that it was 5 years ago today that I had my aortic valve replacement surgery. I have an On-X valve, and my INR is very stable between 1.5-2. I have had no problems since surgery. I prayed for those having upcoming surgeries. The recovery can be long and hard, but the results are worth the effort. Take care, all!
Luke Rodriguez Melissa, I am on my one week anniversary and would love to hear what your highs and lows were. I had ... Read more
Luke Rodriguez Melissa, I am on my one week anniversary and would love to hear what your highs and lows were. I had same procedure as you down to the on-x valve.
Rose Madura Good to hear from you Melissa and glad you are doing so well.
Wanda Blackwood Hey Melissa, glad to see you're doing well. 🤗
So thankful for my surgeon, Dr. Hani Najm, at Cleveland Clinic and the wonderful ladies who helped me after surgery. The ticker (On-X) is working well, and ...Read more
So thankful for my surgeon, Dr. Hani Najm, at Cleveland Clinic and the wonderful ladies who helped me after surgery. The ticker (On-X) is working well, and my INR is stable. For those with upcoming surgeries, you are in my prayers. Yes, you will get through this!!!
Anna Jones Thank you for letting us know you are doing well. Sending best wishes and prayers for happiness and ... Read more
Anna Jones Thank you for letting us know you are doing well. Sending best wishes and prayers for happiness and success.
Barbara Wood That's wonderful to hear Melissa! Hope you are enjoying your new job & your move:)
Lilly Black Great to hear, Melissa! happy valviversary!!
Rose Madura Melissa, so glad to hear. I was just wondering how you were doing. Our surgeries were so close. It ... Read more
Rose Madura Melissa, so glad to hear. I was just wondering how you were doing. Our surgeries were so close. It's good to hear you had an uneventful recovery and all is well.
Once again, it has been a while since I've been on here. It is hard to believe May 23 was just 6 months ago today - yes, on Thanksgiving! I am certainly thankful ...Read more
Once again, it has been a while since I've been on here. It is hard to believe May 23 was just 6 months ago today - yes, on Thanksgiving! I am certainly thankful for having a skilled surgeon and excellent care at Cleveland Clinic. I am also thankful for all the great ladies who stepped up and helped care for me when I desperately needed it after surgery. Happy Thanksgiving to all my heart family :)
Hi all - I haven't been on here for 2 months, can't believe it! I am back to work full steam ahead and don't feel like I had open heart surgery less than 5 ...Read more
Hi all - I haven't been on here for 2 months, can't believe it! I am back to work full steam ahead and don't feel like I had open heart surgery less than 5 months ago on May 23. I even recently interviewed for a new job position in MI, so I will likely be moving in the spring. I hope all those heart warriors I remember from before my surgery are still here. Would love to know how you are doing. Prayers for those with upcoming surgery.
Phyllis Petersen Welcome back Melissa! I'm glad to hear you're doing so well.
Barbara Wood Hey Melissa, so great to see that you are doing well! I was one day before you...feeling great, prett ... Read more
Barbara Wood Hey Melissa, so great to see that you are doing well! I was one day before you...feeling great, pretty back to normal. Ha,time flys- this time 5 months ago we were shaking in our shoes! Hope you get the job you want...keep us posted. xo
Rose Madura Hi Melissa. Good to hear from you. Our surgeries were in the same month - mine was the 31st of May. ... Read more
Rose Madura Hi Melissa. Good to hear from you. Our surgeries were in the same month - mine was the 31st of May. Glad you are doing so well. Congratulations on the new job. Keep us informed of your progress.
Jennifer Barnett Hi Melissa,
Glad you are feeling so good, mine was on 31st May and I'm feeling really good too back t ... Read more
Jennifer Barnett Hi Melissa,
Glad you are feeling so good, mine was on 31st May and I'm feeling really good too back to work and doing all my usual activites, it's amazing how you can bounce back and almost feel like it never happened. Thanks to the skilled surgeons and the wonders of modern medicine. Hope you continue to feel great.
Hi to my heart family here. Between starting work and cardiac rehab (plus, dealing with a new dog at home!), I have been quite busy and haven't managed to ...Read more
Hi to my heart family here. Between starting work and cardiac rehab (plus, dealing with a new dog at home!), I have been quite busy and haven't managed to find time to get on here for a few weeks. It is thrilling to be on this side of OHS, but I think often of those about to go to surgery. The Lord has been good to me, providing the caretakers and help I've needed, despite being alone with no family nearby. Food was bountiful, thanks to my church and other friends. Now I am back to work and will have completed my third week of work tomorrow. I work MWF (short days still) and do cardiac rehab on Tues and Thur. I am a pediatrician, and my office manager and I agreed on a schedule to slowly ease me back into my normal work routine by the middle of Sept. I am thankful for this website and how it both educated and reassured me through the process, especially before surgery. I will continue to give regular updates on my progress and to see how everyone is doing here. Prayers for those on the upcoming surgery list.
Civita Fahey Glad to hear you are back to work Melissa.. it is good to be on this side. hopefully our positive ou ... Read more
Civita Fahey Glad to hear you are back to work Melissa.. it is good to be on this side. hopefully our positive outcomes will make all those who are waiting for surgery a little less apprehensive as I know it did me..
Jill Krajnovich So nice to hear that everything fell into place for you following surgery and that you have been able ... Read more
Jill Krajnovich So nice to hear that everything fell into place for you following surgery and that you have been able to return to work! Wishing you continued progress and healing!
Hi all - I realized it has been almost a month since I've been on here. I can't say how thankful I am to be on this side of OHS. My thoughts and prayers go ...Read more
Hi all - I realized it has been almost a month since I've been on here. I can't say how thankful I am to be on this side of OHS. My thoughts and prayers go out to all those with upcoming surgeries. I am coming along, slow but sure. I saw my cardiologist last week Friday (3 days ago), and he cleared me to return to work. So, I have started the process to return to work in 1 week from today. I plan to start at a slow pace, only 3 half days a week for the first two weeks, and then to slowly increase my hours over the first 2 months back. My work is willing to accommodate my needs. I am driving, doing household chores, and walking my dogs now. Yes, I decided to get a new friend (an approximately 2 yo dachsund/chihuahua mix) to celebrate my 8 week mark after surgery. My old girl (13 yo pitbull/lab mix) was great through everything, but I must have needed more entertainment when I decided to get my rambunctious little guy. Despite not working, I seem to keep myself occupied and take time to rest a little in the afternoons. Although I haven't missed work, I am looking forward to a more consistent routine. Once again, those facing surgery are in my thoughts and prayers. Know that the odds are in your favor to do well, just like I have so far.
Laura Jacobs Congratulations Melissa. Have fun with the new baby!!
Rose Madura Glad everything is going well for you!
Civita Fahey Great news Melissa! I too went back to work slowly..my first full time day I went home and took a na ... Read more
Civita Fahey Great news Melissa! I too went back to work slowly..my first full time day I went home and took a nap!.. I hardly napped during recovery but it kicked my butt.. it gets easier but, do it slow and you will be fine. congrats on the new puppy!
Hello again, heart family! I can't believe I am saying the above and realized I will be six weeks post-op on July 4, which will be my paternal grandmother's ...Read more
Hello again, heart family! I can't believe I am saying the above and realized I will be six weeks post-op on July 4, which will be my paternal grandmother's 92nd birthday. Since she had a brain bleed after a fall earlier this spring, I plan to visit her and my family next week. Since I probably shouldn't drive 6.5 hours to my family in MI, I will be flying from Ohio to Grand Rapids, MI next Monday July 3. I plan to stay with my brother for 10 days and visit my family for a while. Still not ready to go back to work, but I was told I could drive (probably only short distances) when I get back to OH on July 13. I had my first session of cardiac rehab today and did well - On-X valve was clicking away, but no chest pain, lightheadedness, or shortness of breath noted. I do get out daily at least twice to walk and am doing most of my household task, just not lifting things (i.e. full trash bags and heavy baskets of laundry). I had bad sternal pain requiring Tramadol yesterday and realized it was likely due to my side sleep position the night before. After having a better night sleep last night and laying only on my back (I happen to sleep on a 30 degree wedge pillow for GER, but it has been a Godsend after heart surgery, as I can't sleep flat), I feel a lot better today. Now I am about to go on another walk on this warm day in OH. Glad to give a good report, and I hope others are doing well. I also hope this update gives encouragement to those with upcoming surgeries.
Marie Myers Great to hear! I am glad you are on the way to a full recovery. You will be back at work soon!
Jill Krajnovich Hi Melissa, I am one of those with upcoming surgeries. So glad to hear you are doing well! It is rea ... Read more
Jill Krajnovich Hi Melissa, I am one of those with upcoming surgeries. So glad to hear you are doing well! It is reassuring to read posts like yours. Enjoy your trip with your family!
Rose Madura This is great news. I'm glad you are recovering well!
Barbara Wood Wonderful to see you are doing well Melissa! I'm doing really well after 5 weeks too- walking a lot, ... Read more
Barbara Wood Wonderful to see you are doing well Melissa! I'm doing really well after 5 weeks too- walking a lot, sleeping, eating well- it was all worth it, though a few weeks ago I had my doubts:). Keep up the good work, have a nice visit with your family & keep us posted!
I saw my cardiologist for the first time today after my surgery on May 23. Since I have several years (about 5) of working with Dr. Lane (an adult congenital ...Read more
I saw my cardiologist for the first time today after my surgery on May 23. Since I have several years (about 5) of working with Dr. Lane (an adult congenital heart disease specialist at Akron Children's Hospital), it was great to see him and his nurse Deena, who were always willing to answer my questions and allay my concerns before surgery. I have done pretty well keeping it together until now, but for some reason, I had a little emotional meltdown there with them today. I just realized that after all the planning and preparation going into my surgery, I am now well past it and healing well. The Lord has been gracious, providing everything I need through both the surgery and recovery process. I am still not out of the woods yet (INR was subtherapeutic today, so Coumadin was increased; also, I lost 5 lbs - a big deal for someone who only weighed 98 lbs presurgery), but in about 2-4 weeks when I am driving again and able to do more on my own, I will look back and think, "What was I so worried about?!" I can only be thankful for the technology available today, my medical team at Cleveland Clinic, and the group of women who have helped me at home while recovering from surgery. For those here who live alone like me, tell people you trust at work, at church, and in your neighborhood where you live about your need for heart surgery. You will be surprised who comes to your aid.
Marie Myers Amen! Most people are happy to help; you just have to ask. Glad you are on the mend Melissa!
Andria Pugh Doing good Melissa, indeed if you live alone you do need some help, I am lucky enough to have my sist ... Read more
Andria Pugh Doing good Melissa, indeed if you live alone you do need some help, I am lucky enough to have my sisters move in with me whilst recovering. My surgery was 15th May and needed help the first 3 weeks, I am waiting to be signed off to drive so I can get some independence back. Also the lifting of things gets a bit tricky without help. (Changing the bed, carrying cat litter haha most important etc, little things that you don't think of)
Henry Brouwer Great news, Melissa, glad you are recovering well.
Melissa Houser Andrea, it is indeed the little things one needs help with. My ladies here are helping me with the s ... Read more
Melissa Houser Andrea, it is indeed the little things one needs help with. My ladies here are helping me with the same things your sisters were you!
Shannon Gray Many prayers, Melissa. Wonderful to read your good news!
Lisa Ferguson Yes, you will look back and not even remember worrying so much! But it's good to appreciate all you' ... Read more
Lisa Ferguson Yes, you will look back and not even remember worrying so much! But it's good to appreciate all you've been through and those tears were worth it! Great update :)
Rita Savelis An emotional meltdown has to happen sometime. Not really a meltdown is it, but a need to express what ... Read more
Rita Savelis An emotional meltdown has to happen sometime. Not really a meltdown is it, but a need to express what your psyche has been through as it held itself together through a difficult physical time.
I hear you on losing weight when you are already thin, and on INRs that vary...
Glad to hear there are friends helping you. I also found it surprising who helps and how.
Take care Melissa.
Barbara Wood It's so good to see you're coming along so well Melissa! Prayers & best wishes to you as you keep mov ... Read more
Barbara Wood It's so good to see you're coming along so well Melissa! Prayers & best wishes to you as you keep moving forward:)
Sally Strand Very encouraging update I love your attitude, Melissa.
Matt Sheffield You're doing great! Stay strong. Looks like we had the same surgery. I got the St. Jude mechanical ... Read more
Matt Sheffield You're doing great! Stay strong. Looks like we had the same surgery. I got the St. Jude mechanical though. You're right, in no time at all, you'll look back and say what was I so worried about. Keep getting better. :)
Matt Sheffield You're doing great! Stay strong. Looks like we had the same surgery. I got the St. Jude mechanical ... Read more
Matt Sheffield You're doing great! Stay strong. Looks like we had the same surgery. I got the St. Jude mechanical though. You're right, in no time at all, you'll look back and say what was I so worried about. Keep getting better. :)
Hello, all - I have been journaling about weekly here. Yesterday, I was officially 3 weeks post-op Bentall Procedure on 5/23/17. I can't believe I am already ...Read more
Hello, all - I have been journaling about weekly here. Yesterday, I was officially 3 weeks post-op Bentall Procedure on 5/23/17. I can't believe I am already that far our of surgery. I certainly don't feel like myself, but I am doing more every day. Over this past weekend, I had a friend staying with me. We did an outing on Friday, Saturday, and Sunday. I was exhausted when I got home each day but SO glad to get out of my house for a while. For the first time today, I felt like I had enough energy to load up my dishwasher and clean my kitchen. I have the most energy after I wake up in the am, so of course, I did the work then. I am no longer having someone stay with me at night, so it has been just me and my dog the past 2 nights. I am still having someone come daily to help me lift things (i.e. take out garbage and recycling for trash day today, get laundry out of the basement) and drive me to appts (first outing to a salon today, chiropractor for gentle work on my neck and back). My blood work is improving, with my hemoglobin up to 9.4 from 8.7 and my liver function tests normalizing. My INR has been relatively stable on Coumadin 3 mg daily, but I will now take 4 mg twice weekly to make sure my INR doesn't decrease below 2. So, I am pleased with my progress, even though it seems slow. I would love to be back to my "normal" activity level and be able to drive and lift again. I will be seeing my cardiologist next Tue 6/20/17 and hope for a good report. Take care all, especially those about to go through surgery. My thoughts are with you!
Civita Fahey Great news Melissa. It is slow one day you feel great the next you're exhausted. It's frustrating but ... Read more
Civita Fahey Great news Melissa. It is slow one day you feel great the next you're exhausted. It's frustrating but it's slow progress. I just started driving last week and I find it tires me a bit. Going to rehab and it's helping. Keep up the good work
Kathy Blank Melissa- that is great progress for 3 weeks. Steady progress and 3 days worth of outings! So great! ... Read more
Kathy Blank Melissa- that is great progress for 3 weeks. Steady progress and 3 days worth of outings! So great! I have found OHS to be a long process. I am now 4 months post op robotic MV repair and I am still working back to full strength! Keep up the GREAT work!
Barbara Wood It's good to hear you're progressing well Melissa. It's definitely not a linear recovery- more like g ... Read more
Barbara Wood It's good to hear you're progressing well Melissa. It's definitely not a linear recovery- more like good days followed by not as good days, but it is a healing process & we will make it through! Keep up what you're doing, it seems you've found a good balance:)
Laura Jacobs Great news...you seem to be doing very well. Congrats and well done!
Meredith Bray Great news! You'll be driving soon, usually around 5-6 weeks or so. How's your back & shoulder pain?
Crystal Whaley Great news Melissa. They are all right about mornings being good and having one great day and exhaust ... Read more
Crystal Whaley Great news Melissa. They are all right about mornings being good and having one great day and exhausted the next. It will get better. Congrats on no more night babysitters. LOL I am 13 WKS out and can tell you it gets better. Slow and easy. Don't push it.
Valerie Archual Sounds great!!!! It is a process isn't it?! Prayers for continued recovery!!!
I have been home now 4 days and am getting stronger every day. I have been doing 3 walks daily, no more than about 20 min at a time. Pain (especially neck ...Read more
I have been home now 4 days and am getting stronger every day. I have been doing 3 walks daily, no more than about 20 min at a time. Pain (especially neck and upper back pain) has been a problem and wasn't helped with the narcotic pain meds. I did get better after a massage with a cooling gel my chiropractor had given me months ago. I had my post-op check yesterday. Anemia was improved (Hgb up to 8.7 from 8), and except for my liver function tests being abnormally high (still waiting for answers and recommendations on this matter), everything checked out okay. I have an INR recheck in 2 days, and plan to see if I can get a recheck on my liver function tests at that time. I am working on decreasing my pain meds, as pain is slowly getting better. They make me so drowsy and seem to give me headaches. I go see my primary care doctor next week and cardiologist in the next couple weeks. Fortunately, I have been getting good sleep, only waking up with occasional coughing spells (at times quite bad) or pain (yet I go right back to sleep when the pain meds knock me out). I have several sweet ladies assisting me, taking shifts staying at my house and providing 24/7 help until June 12, or about the first 2 weeks I am home after surgery. They have helped me maintain a hopeful outlook during these first few days home after OHS. Anyway, just my latest update for now. I hope eventually to put on a post-op "smiling scar" pic :)
Catie B Sounds like you're in good hands with the ladies, Melissa! It's great news that you're sleeping well ... Read more
Catie B Sounds like you're in good hands with the ladies, Melissa! It's great news that you're sleeping well and feeling stronger, too. Congrats on all your progress!
Rita Savelis Thanks for the honest update Melissa, and hope you keep progressing. There is always time for a smil ... Read more
Rita Savelis Thanks for the honest update Melissa, and hope you keep progressing. There is always time for a smiling scar picture in the future. Mine took awhile.
Lynda Ruiz Sounds good. I am one day behind you I believe. I have to sir upright for my niggling cough to press ... Read more
Lynda Ruiz Sounds good. I am one day behind you I believe. I have to sir upright for my niggling cough to press my pillow into my chest. Sounds like you're in a regular bed , good for you. I'm in a recliner. They sent me home with Tylenol 3, but it makes me itch more. Stoped. I'm taking Advil/anti inflammatory for bit of pain in chest area Dr identified as a bit of pleursey. I need to work in expanding my lung complicity.
Barbara Wood Happy to hear you've gotten some help at home & that you've been sleeping well, lack of sleep has bee ... Read more
Barbara Wood Happy to hear you've gotten some help at home & that you've been sleeping well, lack of sleep has been my biggest obstacle. There are definitely good days & not so good days! Hang in there, good to read your update!xo
Laura Jacobs I hope things improve for you quickly. The achy neck and shoulders sound challenging, but you seem l ... Read more
Laura Jacobs I hope things improve for you quickly. The achy neck and shoulders sound challenging, but you seem like you are fighting your way through it remarkably well. Three 20 minute walks a day sounds like phenomenal progress...good for you!!!
Civita Fahey Hang in there Melissa. It's gets better slowly.
Jill Krajnovich Thank you for the update. I am new to the community and have been reading patient journals and storie ... Read more
Jill Krajnovich Thank you for the update. I am new to the community and have been reading patient journals and stories with interest as I face similar surgery.
Meredith Bray Read my two most recent journal entries about my issues with back pain. I'm a sloucher (always have b ... Read more
Meredith Bray Read my two most recent journal entries about my issues with back pain. I'm a sloucher (always have been) and I still take my own advice when my back aches.
-Meredith
Wendy Wood So glad to hear from you Melissa. I've been thinking about you and hoping that your surgery went wel ... Read more
Wendy Wood So glad to hear from you Melissa. I've been thinking about you and hoping that your surgery went well and that you were making good progress in recovery. It sounds like you are well on your way.
Hello, everyone - I finally feel that I have the energy to get on my laptop and write a journal entry. It has been a bit of a haul, but I am almost ready to ...Read more
Hello, everyone - I finally feel that I have the energy to get on my laptop and write a journal entry. It has been a bit of a haul, but I am almost ready to go home (some hold ups due to the holiday). I spent my first 3.5 post-op days in a pediatric ICU, as my surgeon is a congenital heart surgeon that does surgeries at Cleveland Clinic's Children's. It was somewhat touch and go for my first 48 hours after surgery, trying to get my BP and urine output up. I had to go on a medicine called dobutamine to increase my heart function for about 48 hours. It worked, as urine output and BP improved. Most of my lines and drains were taken out before leaving ICU. I was then transferred to the adult floor for post-operative heart patients. The first 24 hours on the regular floor was spent getting my pain under control. The first night out of the ICU, I was very weepy after moving to the bathroom via walker. The nurse got an additional pain med ordered by the doctor, and I was on an every 3 hour pain medication regimen the next day. I was able to walk the halls by the end of that day. Slow, baby step improvements since then. A shower last pm made me SO tired and achy in my neck and shoulders. Had to stay on a regular pain med schedule since last pm, but I feel a little better today. The heart surgeon's fellow and nurse practitioner rounded and seemed to think I am doing well. Lasix got off my extra fluid (almost 2.5 liters of urine yesterday!), so I can actually put on my slip-on sneakers today :) My heart rate is a little tachycardic (high 90's to low 100's), which is apparently normal after heart surgery. Due to my BP being low (and it is normally), they don't think I will be able to tolerate a beta-blocker to decrease my heart rate, as my systolic BP is rarely over 100. SO, I just have to hang out another day and keep doing laps around the unit.
Rita Savelis I think people who post so soon after OHS are amazing. So you are amazing Melissa! Here's hoping you ... Read more
Rita Savelis I think people who post so soon after OHS are amazing. So you are amazing Melissa! Here's hoping you feel better day by day. You've been through a lot. Take care.
Sandy Laine SO GLAD you are doing better, Melissa - and thank you SO MUCH for taking the time to share your exper ... Read more
Sandy Laine SO GLAD you are doing better, Melissa - and thank you SO MUCH for taking the time to share your experience! Prayers for the rest of your recovery being uneventful.
Marie Myers Glad to hear you are on the recovery side. I agree with Rita about you "early posters". I didn't feel ... Read more
Marie Myers Glad to hear you are on the recovery side. I agree with Rita about you "early posters". I didn't feel like doing anything while in the hospital! I had those achy shoulders and back also. I thought the back ache was worse than my sternal pain...
Catie B It's so good to hear that you're coming along, Melissa. I'm sorry your pain was hard to manage. I hop ... Read more
Catie B It's so good to hear that you're coming along, Melissa. I'm sorry your pain was hard to manage. I hope you continue to feel stronger and stronger.
Melissa Houser Thanks, ladies - Marie, I agree that the achy shoulders, neck, and upper back were HORRIBLE. I could ... Read more
Melissa Houser Thanks, ladies - Marie, I agree that the achy shoulders, neck, and upper back were HORRIBLE. I could hardly take it last pm after my shower (the first after surgery). Pain is better today. I have done 5 laps around the unit already :)
Cathy Zuber Great you have the energy to send out news!! Hang in there..each day things will be better!!
Barbara Wood Ahh, sorry you didn't make it home today, but it does sound like youre making tremendous progress- ha ... Read more
Barbara Wood Ahh, sorry you didn't make it home today, but it does sound like youre making tremendous progress- have fun on those laps:). Oh, I had the back / shoulder pain too, it did go away& I had to wear my slippers home.
Civita Fahey Good to see your update Melissa.. I hear you about the achy neck and shoulders.. I still have it.. ca ... Read more
Civita Fahey Good to see your update Melissa.. I hear you about the achy neck and shoulders.. I still have it.. can't wait to go to the chiropractor.. keep up the good work.. as have found it, slow and steady wins the race!
Phyllis Petersen Great to hear you're doing well and almost home. Weekends, especially holidays, really do get in the ... Read more
Phyllis Petersen Great to hear you're doing well and almost home. Weekends, especially holidays, really do get in the way. I had low blood pressure up to about 10 months before surgery, but both that and the HR are still fluctuating a bit, but, like you said, this is not unusual after heart valve surgery. The first week or two feel like you're moving slowly, but it will pick up, so hang in there. If you have pain, take the meds. You won't help your recovery by staying in pain. You'll be able to taper off soon enough. All the best, heart sister.
Jan Persico Hi Melissa. Have you requested a therapeutic massage or aromatherapy. CC offers both. At least they d ... Read more
Jan Persico Hi Melissa. Have you requested a therapeutic massage or aromatherapy. CC offers both. At least they did in February when I was there. Also, if you think a "heating pad" might help, ask for one of those as well. I found the nurses at CC to be so helpful when it came to pain relief, aside from the drugs! Good luck.....stay strong! ❤️
Kathy Blank Melissa- you are doing great! Let us know how you are feeling once you get home. I think everyone res ... Read more
Kathy Blank Melissa- you are doing great! Let us know how you are feeling once you get home. I think everyone rests better at home! we are all here to encourage you and remind you of the incredible courage and steady progress you are making!
Andria Pugh Great to hear from you Melissa, hope you are home soon
Henry Brouwer Good to hear from you, Melissa and hope you get home soon.
Keith Heflin Glad to hear you are making progress Melissa! We talked about how much noise the on-x makes in a pre ... Read more
Keith Heflin Glad to hear you are making progress Melissa! We talked about how much noise the on-x makes in a previous post. I tried to describe mine as best I could. How are you doing with yours? I'm laying here listening to mine as I write this.
Bridget Supple The heating pad was my best friend for about two weeks after surgery. Those back and neck pains are a ... Read more
Bridget Supple The heating pad was my best friend for about two weeks after surgery. Those back and neck pains are awful! Glad you're doing okay and I hope that you are home by now!
Marie Migliaro Good luck Melissa. I'll be thinking of you and praying for your speedy recovery!
Wendy Wood I'm with you in spirit and will be thinking about you early tomorrow a.m. You sound upbeat and stron ... Read more
Wendy Wood I'm with you in spirit and will be thinking about you early tomorrow a.m. You sound upbeat and strong!!! That's great. You're an inspiration to those of us who will follow you!!! Thanks for that!!!
May 23 will be the date. No hold up based on hematologist's evaluation for my low wbc count. I got blood work done today and have an abdominal ultrasound ...Read more
May 23 will be the date. No hold up based on hematologist's evaluation for my low wbc count. I got blood work done today and have an abdominal ultrasound scheduled while I'm up in Cleveland this coming Monday, which is the day before my surgery. Future evaluations for my low wbc count may be in the future, BUT at least no hold up on my heart surgery. Yay!!!
Lynda Ruiz Good for you! I was tense yesterday waiting to hear if I was a "go" for the 25th. I am.
Prayers for you Melissa.
Andria Pugh Hope you are able to enjoy your weekend Melissa. Have some good meals :) losing your appetite afterwa ... Read more
Andria Pugh Hope you are able to enjoy your weekend Melissa. Have some good meals :) losing your appetite afterwards can happen, I'm starting to get mine back a little bit but not craving any foods and can take or leave it.
Today was my preoperative testing day and time to get poked and prodded before surgery: CXR, EKG, blood work, and echocardiogram. I was sent home with a holter ...Read more
Today was my preoperative testing day and time to get poked and prodded before surgery: CXR, EKG, blood work, and echocardiogram. I was sent home with a holter monitor. I got a tour of the surgical suite, ICU, and postoperative floor. I was referred to a hematologist for preoperative clearance due to a low white blood cell count, which I have had for years. I hope the nurse practitioner working with the heart surgeon or my primary doctor can work a small miracle and get me an appt for this consult before my scheduled surgical date. I am definitely hoping and praying that nothing changes my surgical date.
Catie B It's good that those tests are behind you now. Hope they can get you in with the hematologist quickl ... Read more
Catie B It's good that those tests are behind you now. Hope they can get you in with the hematologist quickly, Melissa. I know you don't want any delays.
Barbara Wood I hope this all works out for you Melissa!
Marie Myers Glad you made it through the testing. Hope the WBC doesn't cause a hold-up.
Sean Hunt Melissa thanks for the update, my work up will be on the date of your surgery. Pray that everything ... Read more
Sean Hunt Melissa thanks for the update, my work up will be on the date of your surgery. Pray that everything continues to go well for you and may run into you soon walking the halls post-op.
Melissa Houser Yes, Sean - I am looking forward to getting this deed done! Prayers for you, me, and Barbara (one da ... Read more
Melissa Houser Yes, Sean - I am looking forward to getting this deed done! Prayers for you, me, and Barbara (one day ahead, May 22) that we have great surgical outcomes and speedy recoveries.
Andria Pugh Not long now melissa. The waiting is the worst
So, I spent the past two days cleaning up everything at work - we're talking 10+ hours on Thursday and about 5+ hours yesterday (Friday). I am pediatrician ...Read more
So, I spent the past two days cleaning up everything at work - we're talking 10+ hours on Thursday and about 5+ hours yesterday (Friday). I am pediatrician and had to make sure all patient care matters were addressed and medical records were completed. Most people who aren't in health care have no idea of what is required for documentation, even just for a kid coming in for a simple cold! But I digress . . . here I am now, awake at 3:30 am. I just finished eating two slices of cold leftover pizza and now can't lay down for a while due to GER. I made the mistake of falling asleep early after eating very little for dinner, then waking up anxious and hungry. I hope this night isn't foreshadowing my upcoming days before surgery. So much to do, so little time!
Marie Myers I feel for you. Those pre op days were nerve wracking. How about a little something for sleep? Temaze ... Read more
Marie Myers I feel for you. Those pre op days were nerve wracking. How about a little something for sleep? Temazepam 15mg worked well for me. Peaceful thoughts going your way!
Civita Fahey Melissa the few days before surgery are the hardest.. I didn't take anything but, but it wasn't easy. ... Read more
Civita Fahey Melissa the few days before surgery are the hardest.. I didn't take anything but, but it wasn't easy.. just try to go through your day as normal as possible and concentrate on the recovery period.. I somehow didn't have trouble sleeping but that I don't sleep much anyway.. I had a couple of mental breakdowns with crying fits which did help me.. I found my imagination was so much more creative than the actual occurrence and I though the worst and thankfully got the best.. prayers for a successful surgery, youre young and healthy, you will do great.. btw, I totally understand the amount of documentation that is required, I'm a healthcare compliance manager at a large multi specialty organization and have to speak to clinicians daily about the documentation requirements.. :-0
Carmen P I was diagnosed with a bicuspid aortic valve at almost 61 yrs of age. God Bless that CVS Minute Clin ... Read more
Carmen P I was diagnosed with a bicuspid aortic valve at almost 61 yrs of age. God Bless that CVS Minute Clinic nurse who alerted me.
This is a scary time for you, but rest assured, it will not be as bad as you have imagined it. (at least it wasn't for me) The best advice I was given was by the Internist visiting me in the hospital. She said, "You will heal better if you are not in pain". So, my advice is to take your meds that first week and do not let the pain overwhelm you. You being a doctor are aware of the risk of becoming addicted, so that should not be a worry. As to other concerns, I did not need anything at the hospital, but a set of loose fitting clothes to come home in and a soft front closure bra. Everything else was provided. At home, I slept on the couch, which with the back pillows removed, is the size of a twin bed. Pillows layered at one end served to elevate my head and upper body. The couch was chair height and was easier for me to sit up on than any bed in our home. Hopefully, this advice will help. Try to rest, have utmost faith in your doctors and focus on the time when you are at home recuperating. Keep it simple and follow all your doctors instructions, especially the ones on spirometer use. You've got this and the time will pass quickly. Just veg on the couch and "make" yourself watch Neflix episodes all day long. ( I did, but you might be able to focus on more important things.) All kidding aside, relax. A sense of humor will help. That and knowing that being naked in front of strangers will not matter after a few days in the hospital. Good Luck and God Bless.
Melissa Houser Thanks, ladies - after cleaning up dog pee on the kitchen floor (I have an old dog who is on steroid ... Read more
Melissa Houser Thanks, ladies - after cleaning up dog pee on the kitchen floor (I have an old dog who is on steroid for cancer, which causes her to go frequently - plus dufus didn't let the poor baby out when I fell asleep early), playing online a little (I know, not the best help for sleep!), and brushing my teeth, I did fall asleep properly. I am a good sleeper normally when I have routine. This will be key for me over the next 10 days. I am not overly panicked about the surgery itself, more about getting my home ready in time. I just had construction done on a spare bedroom to make it ready for people who are staying with me. I still need carpet and furniture. The room used to be a catch-all storage room, so I have junk ALL OVER my home! I need to get it into shape fast! I want my home to be organized well so that people can easily help me after surgery. Right now, it looks like a bomb went off!
I laugh about your comment regarding being naked in front of strangers - already experienced this a little with my heart cath earlier this week. Fortunately, I have no body image issues or qualms about showing off my body. I am 1/4 inch shy of 5 foot (I laugh and say I'm 5 foot with shoes on) and 100 lbs soaking wet. Basically, there ain't much boobs or rolls to see!!!
Barbara Wood Hope things fall into place & you get some good rest...best wishes on your upcoming surgery!
Bridget Supple Congratulations on getting everything cleaned up at work! That was the hardest thing I did before sur ... Read more
Bridget Supple Congratulations on getting everything cleaned up at work! That was the hardest thing I did before surgery but it has paid off tremendously. I had a few sleepless nights before surgery but since then I've slept like a baby at night. The anticipation was the worst for me. Surgery went well and, here in week 7 post-op, I can say that I've recovered magnificently. I wish the same for you!
Melissa Houser Barbara - I pray for a successful outcome and speedy recovery for both of us. Bridget - you are righ ... Read more
Melissa Houser Barbara - I pray for a successful outcome and speedy recovery for both of us. Bridget - you are right, getting everything cleaned up at work was the most difficult and stressful part of this time off for surgery. Now, I need to focus on getting my house in order! Yes, I certainly need rest and plan to go to sleep at a reasonable hour tonight.
Wendy Wood I'm a few weeks out, maybe a month, from my surgery date. I'm 63, and like someone else's comment I ... Read more
Wendy Wood I'm a few weeks out, maybe a month, from my surgery date. I'm 63, and like someone else's comment I read a few comments back, I was 61 when I was diagnosed. Another dr. years ago heard my murmur, but diagnosed it as MVP rather than aortic stenosis. My valve is bicuspid and I'm in the severe range. I'm curious what others of you who are farther along I this process than I, are choosing as your product (bio v. mechanical) and which procedure, basic replacement, Ross procedure, sutureless, or stentless (aortic stent root replacement), or other procedure that I'm forgetting to mention right now. What did you choose or what did your dr recommend for you and why?
I am having my heart cath at Akron Children's Hospital at 11 am today. Yes, I go to a children's hospital and see one of the adult congenital heart specialists ...Read more
I am having my heart cath at Akron Children's Hospital at 11 am today. Yes, I go to a children's hospital and see one of the adult congenital heart specialists there. Dr. John Lane is my doctor and is board certified in both pediatric and adult cardiology. He is doing my cath this morning. For adults with congenital heart disease (simple and complex) who live in Northeast Ohio, I highly recommend him and his partner, Dr. Saini. They conference weekly with the congenital heart surgeons at Cleveland Clinic. Who would have known I would have such a great team of specialists taking care of me when I was referred to Dr. Lane by my primary care doctor about 5 years ago when I needed a cardiologist after moving to the area several years prior. And don't follow my lead of not going to a cardiologist for 7 years at the time I first saw Dr. Lane! Get at least yearly echocardiograms if you have bicuspid aortic valve and aortic stenosis..
Lori Phillips Good luck! Alhough, I know you don't need luck :) Lot's of positive thinking and faith. Thinking of y ... Read more
Lori Phillips Good luck! Alhough, I know you don't need luck :) Lot's of positive thinking and faith. Thinking of you!
Sean Hunt My Cath is also at 11:00 am today, and our surgery is 2 days apart at the same hospital. Positive th ... Read more
Sean Hunt My Cath is also at 11:00 am today, and our surgery is 2 days apart at the same hospital. Positive thoughts for both of us!
Melissa Houser Sean - I saw on your other post that you said you are staying in Cleveland until June 10. A good ide ... Read more
Melissa Houser Sean - I saw on your other post that you said you are staying in Cleveland until June 10. A good idea! I will be leaving for my home about 1.5 hours from Cleveland after my surgery. I hope to only stay in the hospital 5 days. I hope you survived your heart cath - I did, and am resting at home now. The big day is coming soon! Prayers for successful surgeries and speedy recoveries!
So the waiting is almost over! I can't believe how time has moved so quickly to this point. My last day of work was yesterday, and now I have two weeks before ...Read more
So the waiting is almost over! I can't believe how time has moved so quickly to this point. My last day of work was yesterday, and now I have two weeks before my surgery to attend to my needs. I must have a heart cath before my surgery to check out my coronary arteries. I hope all is found to be normal. Can't believe this happens in two days! The worst part will be laying flat for 6 hours after the procedure.
Barbara Wood Best of luck on the Cath Melissa! Can they go through your wrist? Pretty easy, no laying flat. We're ... Read more
Barbara Wood Best of luck on the Cath Melissa! Can they go through your wrist? Pretty easy, no laying flat. We're getting down to the wire, I'm one day before you:). Best wishes to you!
Melissa Houser I am very tiny (I laughingly say I am 5 foot with shoes on and weigh 100 lbs soaking wet). I wasn't ... Read more
Melissa Houser I am very tiny (I laughingly say I am 5 foot with shoes on and weigh 100 lbs soaking wet). I wasn't given the option for the wrist, maybe due to my size. Not thrilled, but the cath must be done.
Best wishes. I am glad to hear of your posituve experience at the Cleveland Clinic. Considering mak ... Read more
Best wishes. I am glad to hear of your posituve experience at the Cleveland Clinic. Considering making the trip myself. I hope your recovery goes smoothly.
Henry Brouwer Best wishes Melissa. I had 2 cath's done and only had to lay down for 2-3 hrs............you got this ... Read more
Henry Brouwer Best wishes Melissa. I had 2 cath's done and only had to lay down for 2-3 hrs............you got this and it is painless!
Enrique K Hi Melissa, I had my cath through the wrist but through the leg I've heard is not bothersome. You wil ... Read more
Enrique K Hi Melissa, I had my cath through the wrist but through the leg I've heard is not bothersome. You will be in twilight mode. I was able to see everything on the screen and it was pretty surreal;-). Good luck!
Surgery is one day shy of 5 weeks away from today. I am taking two weeks off work before surgery to get myself prepared and to do my heart cath and preop visit. ...Read more
Surgery is one day shy of 5 weeks away from today. I am taking two weeks off work before surgery to get myself prepared and to do my heart cath and preop visit. So, I have two weeks and two days left of work before about 3 months off. Too much to do, too little time. Trying to stay focused the best I can.
Adam Pick Great idea taking some time off before the surgery. I did the same thing. Take it step-by-step. You a ... Read more
Adam Pick Great idea taking some time off before the surgery. I did the same thing. Take it step-by-step. You and Dr. Najm are going to do great!
Enrique K Stay positive as you're in great hands with your surgeon and his team. 👍
Civita Fahey I feel this last month as flown by for me.. I'm 3 days away.. but feel pretty good.. I am even more i ... Read more
Civita Fahey I feel this last month as flown by for me.. I'm 3 days away.. but feel pretty good.. I am even more impressed with the Brigham and Women's Hospital after my pre op on Tuesday.. I almost told them, since I'm here lets just do this ! But, need to wait my turn, it will be here soon enough..
Henry Brouwer Hi Melissa, I was exactly the same way prior to my surgery and I can now say that the waiting was the ... Read more
Henry Brouwer Hi Melissa, I was exactly the same way prior to my surgery and I can now say that the waiting was the worst part. Keep positive about it all and it will all be soon behind you. We are all thinking of you and the others with upcoming surgeries.
Lori Phillips You'll do SUPER, Melissa! As you mentioned, we have the same world renowned surgeon, Dr. Najm who is ... Read more
Lori Phillips You'll do SUPER, Melissa! As you mentioned, we have the same world renowned surgeon, Dr. Najm who is not only a genious but easy to talk to - and you have the skilled, awesome Cleveland Clinic team. You are in great hands! Mine comes first (May 4th). I can tell you the waiting is the hardest part. Hopefully, I will be up and about, ready to tell you how mine went 😉
For months,, I have been planning and preparing for my surgery on May 23. Fortunately, my surgery hasn't been an immediate urgency, so I have been able to ...Read more
For months,, I have been planning and preparing for my surgery on May 23. Fortunately, my surgery hasn't been an immediate urgency, so I have been able to schedule it at a convenient time for me. Unfortunately, I was told by my sister that her work isn't going to let her take off the 3 weeks I was hoping she could spend with me after my surgery. I know everyone's recovery is different, but Just wondering: how long would people recommend having a 24/7 caretaker after surgery? I live alone and plan to make a calendar of coverage, allowing family and friends to give me specific dates and times they are available to help.
Marie Myers I am on day 11 after AVR and aneurysm resection, and I feel I still need someone 24/7. I am thinking ... Read more
Marie Myers I am on day 11 after AVR and aneurysm resection, and I feel I still need someone 24/7. I am thinking at least 2 weeks at this point...
Clare Auten I am married. My 3 children were 13, 7 and 4 at the time of my surgery. I was in the hospital the typ ... Read more
Clare Auten I am married. My 3 children were 13, 7 and 4 at the time of my surgery. I was in the hospital the typical 5 to 7 days. By then my husband went back to work and the older 2 went to school. My 4 year old and I managed the house while they were gone. I could do simple things like cook mac and cheese for her lunch or reheat leftovers. We did watch a lot of TV. And I did catnap in the chair while she played. Everyone is different and my recovery was fairly typical but I managed without someone 24/7.
Melissa Houser Thanks, ladies - I suppose the other issue is whether I want or should be alone, too. Even if someon ... Read more
Melissa Houser Thanks, ladies - I suppose the other issue is whether I want or should be alone, too. Even if someone is with me, I will get up and do things I can. Cardiac depression is a real thing, and I am concerned about being by myself for weeks on end. I typically work about 50-60+ hours a week, as I am a pediatrician. Fortunately, I have a good church life group with people who will likely be there for me. Unfortunately, my family never ceases to disappoint me :(
Terrie Hodges Melissa...let your church group, your chosen family, wrap their arms around this for and with you💟 ... Read more
Terrie Hodges Melissa...let your church group, your chosen family, wrap their arms around this for and with you💟
Marie Myers I definitely Had a touch of cardiac depression the first few days, and was glad my husband was around ... Read more
Marie Myers I definitely Had a touch of cardiac depression the first few days, and was glad my husband was around. But like you say, you will be getting up and doing things even if someone else is there. I think having someone there will really help you. A challenge for you will be going from an extremely busy work week to full time recovering patient. I t is quite a shock. I have never taken this much time off of work... Takes some getting used to.
Barbara Wood It's wise to consider all this- being alone & depression- ahead of time Melissa. I'm fortunate to hav ... Read more
Barbara Wood It's wise to consider all this- being alone & depression- ahead of time Melissa. I'm fortunate to have a very supportive & involved husband ( & 2 stellar kids:)) but, like you, my (5) biological brothers are completely cavalier & nonsupportive, so I hear you & sympathize with you on that. I'll be thinking of you in the days ahead, my surgery date is one day before yours- sending all good thoughts your way:)
Catie B Melissa, I'm glad you can call on your church family and hope they will step up for you. If you end ... Read more
Catie B Melissa, I'm glad you can call on your church family and hope they will step up for you. If you end up in a quandary, your insurer may pay for some home health. They may start you on cardiac rehab pretty soon, which would take you out several times a week. You will get through this. :)
It wasn't fun, but circumstances dictated that I was entirely on my own. Extra week in hotel after out-of-state surgery (a few complications), then flew back to my second floor apartment. Frozen food in the freezer helped, as did walking distance to fast food and a recliner for sleep.
Melissa Houser Thanks again, ladies - appreciate your kind words. Barbara, I happened to see your surgery was resch ... Read more
Melissa Houser Thanks again, ladies - appreciate your kind words. Barbara, I happened to see your surgery was rescheduled (and even rescheduled again?) due to a cold. So, now I know you will be above me on the upcoming patient list. I too have a large family of 6 siblings, and they don't seemingly get it at all. When I told my dad I needed surgery, he said,"So do you want me to be part of this process with you?" Yeah, don't expect much there, either. My mom passed away from breast cancer 17 years ago. Yep, looks like church folks and coworkers are likely going to help get me through this trying time. I have been through other difficulties in life, and I know my Lord in heaven will get me through this trial, just like He has in the past. I am a planner and a doctor, so I know what I will need. Yes, I have thought about getting home health care, if needed.
Steven A Husted hi Melissa i was afraid of the after surgery also because i live alone with no one to help me and i m ... Read more
Steven A Husted hi Melissa i was afraid of the after surgery also because i live alone with no one to help me and i made sure my doctors new this so they said they would help me so when i was released from the hospital they sent me to a rehab hospital for two weeks to teach me how to manage when i got home by my self and it helped a lot then they had a nurse and therapest come to my house twice a week for 5 weeks then i started cardio rehab phase 2 for 36 sessions then i joined cardio rehab phase 3 and i am doing great in phase 3 now at almost three years out so just let your concerns be know to the doctors and there staff most will help you all they can hope this will help you your heart brother steve
Barbara Wood So sorry about your mom Melissa( I'm a 7 year survivor). I think some people are just plain afraid of ... Read more
Barbara Wood So sorry about your mom Melissa( I'm a 7 year survivor). I think some people are just plain afraid of illness & keep their distance accordingly. I think you will do just fine, you've gotten far in your life & this will turn out to be just a small bump in the road. Take care, sending prayers & hugs from nh:) xo
( it's my 4th reschedule- it better hold!:))
So, it is less than 2 months before my surgery. Trying hard to keep focused these days. Has anyone thought of doing something completely out of character, ...Read more
So, it is less than 2 months before my surgery. Trying hard to keep focused these days. Has anyone thought of doing something completely out of character, almost a little crazy, before surgery? I am usually VERY practical with my money and have an old but good car (2005 Honda CR-V - paid off since 2008). Would love to have a motorcycle, but due to being on blood thinners soon, I don't think that would be a good idea. Plus, I am very petite! Instead, I think I want a fun, impractical car. How about a 2013 MINI Cooper S Hardtop - gray with racing stripes? Found one online for a good price. New car or not, I think a road trip is calling me before surgery :)
Phyllis Petersen You definitely need to do something fun and out of the ordinary. A road trip sounds like a great idea ... Read more
Phyllis Petersen You definitely need to do something fun and out of the ordinary. A road trip sounds like a great idea for getting your mind off of surgery. Then, you'll have to plan something fun for a couple of months after surgery to clear your head. Crazy is good!
James Roberts MINIs are cool. Get the MINI. I had a 2005 Cooper s and it was great fun.
Juergen Li Melissa - I need to "warn" you. Once you experience your new valve you will be amazed how much energy ... Read more
Juergen Li Melissa - I need to "warn" you. Once you experience your new valve you will be amazed how much energy and no more "out of breath" you will enjoy. You might want to wait until then - how about a road bicycle or any other piece of sports equipment? In only a few weeks you will be ready for completely new and fresh adventures - that is what I experienced. I am still planning to climb with my son on top of a 11,249 ft mountain this year - had my surgery last summer.
Bob Fessler Great idea about the road trip Melissa. Go for it. 5 weeks ago I was told it was time for an AVR an ... Read more
Bob Fessler Great idea about the road trip Melissa. Go for it. 5 weeks ago I was told it was time for an AVR and here I sit sipping sangria in Seville Spain. My 3 week trip is up next Thursday just in time for my 2nd opinion appointment.
Rita Savelis Go on and treat yourself! You deserve something nice.
Barbara Wood I had a red one with the union Jack on the roof...loved it but sold it so not to drive it cross count ... Read more
Barbara Wood I had a red one with the union Jack on the roof...loved it but sold it so not to drive it cross country when I moved! Go for it!
Amy Steele Yes! Do something fun for yourself. I agree that a motorcycle is probably not the best choice, but a ... Read more
Amy Steele Yes! Do something fun for yourself. I agree that a motorcycle is probably not the best choice, but a Mini or a trip will be great!
Melissa Houser So, looks like I'll be getting the MINI Cooper today. I only "needed" it after finding this specific ... Read more
Melissa Houser So, looks like I'll be getting the MINI Cooper today. I only "needed" it after finding this specific car at a great price. If I couldn't pay cash, I wouldn't be getting it. I guess it pays to be wise with one's money :) And Juergen, I can still get any sports equipment I want at a later time, although I'm leery of riding a bike on a road. The last thing I want is being hit by some idiot driver, getting a head injury, and having a serious brain bleed due to blood thinners.
Matt Jones I've got a Mini and I love it! go for it Melissa and have fun!