Hey Nancy! I grew up in St. Louis. Went to Lafayette High School...not sure what part of the city you live in but I was close to Ellisville and Wildwood. I ...Read more
Hey Nancy! I grew up in St. Louis. Went to Lafayette High School...not sure what part of the city you live in but I was close to Ellisville and Wildwood. I know you didn’t want the news of needing OHS but you will do great. I realize it’s a stressful time of unknowns but it is something you can get through for sure.
Nancy White Thanks Chris I live in south county.And you are right I didn't want the the news I got.I still try to ... Read more
Nancy White Thanks Chris I live in south county.And you are right I didn't want the the news I got.I still try to fight the whole idea. Just call me chicken little! But I know it has to be done but I get so nervous just thinking about I think I'm going to pass out.
Nancy - We've all been there. It's perfectly normal to be frightened. But, breaking your toes might have been a blessing in disguise. As you spend time ...Read more
Nancy - We've all been there. It's perfectly normal to be frightened. But, breaking your toes might have been a blessing in disguise. As you spend time to get to know us on the site, you will see, you're not going through this alone. We'll be here every step of the way. Welcome.
Nancy White Thank you Susan it's good to know someone is listening.
Hi Nancy, welcome. Being scared out of your mind is normal. Come here often. Read and post. We will get you through this. Sending prayers and best wishes. ...Read more
Hi Nancy, welcome. Being scared out of your mind is normal. Come here often. Read and post. We will get you through this. Sending prayers and best wishes.
Nancy White Anna I use to think I was a strong person but now I feel weaker than a newborn kitten.And I hate that ... Read more
Nancy White Anna I use to think I was a strong person but now I feel weaker than a newborn kitten.And I hate that feeling I want to be strong for my family but it's not working.
Anna Jones Nancy, you have it backward. Now is the time for your family to be strong for you. To be strong all ... Read more
Anna Jones Nancy, you have it backward. Now is the time for your family to be strong for you. To be strong allows one to also be weak.
This is a huge deal. Everyone is frightened by it. Allow people to comfort you. It will make them feel better. Meanwhile, just take it one day at a time. Read people's journals. It will help. Sending prayers.
Nancy White Thanks Anna you make me feel much stronger
Nancy White Thanks Anna you make me feel much stronger
Anna Jones You're very welcome. Nancy. How are you doing?
Nancy,
I am sitting here in a similar place. Fear can sometimes be all-consuming, but I have decided that the only way that I can control the fear is to ...Read more
Nancy,
I am sitting here in a similar place. Fear can sometimes be all-consuming, but I have decided that the only way that I can control the fear is to know absolutely everything I can about my condition. My surgeon's office has us looking at videos (I am squeamish), and it has actually helped. I have decided that I may have this condition, but the condition doesn't have me, and it doesn't define me.
A dear friend had a serious medical condition and she was full of life and light despite being very ill. I asked her about it and she said that it was as if her condition was like an angry person standing right in front of her. "I am not ignoring it, but I choose to look around it..."
I try and live that. I am not ignoring my condition, but I am trying to look around it.
Hang in there Nancy - I'm pulling with you and for you.
Debbie Chatzky Steven. Those are awesome words! I will think of them often. Thank you!
Nancy White Steven thanks your words make me feel safer.I am so scared but I feel so alone but now I feel I have ... Read more
Nancy White Steven thanks your words make me feel safer.I am so scared but I feel so alone but now I feel I have people to talk to who will really listen and understand Thank you so much.