Very relieved to get my results from my first echo after MVR surgery and I have 0% regurgitation, before surgery I was at 65% regurgitation. So happy and grateful!!! ...Read more
Very relieved to get my results from my first echo after MVR surgery and I have 0% regurgitation, before surgery I was at 65% regurgitation. So happy and grateful!!!
I have my follow up with my cardiologist on Monday to get my echo results, a bit nervous. Seven weeks out from MVR surgery and feeling good, walking a lot ...Read more
I have my follow up with my cardiologist on Monday to get my echo results, a bit nervous. Seven weeks out from MVR surgery and feeling good, walking a lot and doing yoga a few times a week. I start cardio rehab next week as well. My only issue is that I feel like my hands feel shaky once in a wile, not sure why.
Tomorrow will be 6 weeks since my MVR surgery. I am feeling really good, I feel like I have a lot more energy than even just two weeks ago. I do have one ...Read more
Tomorrow will be 6 weeks since my MVR surgery. I am feeling really good, I feel like I have a lot more energy than even just two weeks ago. I do have one question for everyone ahead of me, I feel like I need to eat more than I used to keep up my energy. After a long walk, I feel a bit shaky like my blood sugar level has dropped and I usually eat and rest a little and it gets better. But I do know my heart rate is higher than it used to be before surgery and I am guessing that maybe I am burning more calories than I used to which means I need to eat more? I am trying to get better at tracking everything, I just bought an older Apple Watch so that I can start to track my vitals better. Has anyone else noticed that they need to eat more than before surgery to keep their energy up? Do you think it has to do with heart running at a higher number than before? I am going to ask my cardiologist to start cardio rehab, I think that will give me this type of information and help me learn to track my own vitals better.
Shannon Gray Hi! I am by no means a Dr., but my experience was losing a ton of weight after surgery and for the fi ... Read more
Shannon Gray Hi! I am by no means a Dr., but my experience was losing a ton of weight after surgery and for the first time in my life, was able to eat more and not gain weight. I’m 4’10”, which leaves little room on my frame to carry weight. It could be that our bodies are working over time to heal therefore burning more calories than before. Talk with your Dr and let us know what you find out.
Lee, I have lost weight since my surgery almost a year ago. I eat better but not anymore than I used ... Read more
Lee, I have lost weight since my surgery almost a year ago. I eat better but not anymore than I used to. It will be a good idea to ask your doctor about this. But, don’t deprive yourself and eat when you are hungry. You seem to be doing the right things like resting when you are tired. God speed and continued recovery
Nancy W I had very little appetite and low energy for quite a while after surgery ( weeks on end). Bloodwork ... Read more
Nancy W I had very little appetite and low energy for quite a while after surgery ( weeks on end). Bloodwork revealed low hemoglobin and hematocrit levels. Iron supplement and attention to adding more iron in my diet has made such a difference. I’ve repeated bloodwork twice with much improved ( although still below normal levels) at 13 weeks post surgery. Seems like everyone’s recovery is so different. It does keep getting better each week!
I am four weeks post-surgery today and I am feeling really good overall. I do find that if I walk two miles over the course of one day, the next day I am more ...Read more
I am four weeks post-surgery today and I am feeling really good overall. I do find that if I walk two miles over the course of one day, the next day I am more tired and can only walk one mile. I am constantly working on patience with recovery. I had my first appointment with my cardiologist today and it went well. My EKG was good and my heart sounded good. He is keeping me on the Metropolol at 6mg twice a day, my BP is basically where it was before surgery, always on the low end and an Asprin 325 mg once a day for at least another month.
My only surprise was that he discouraged cardio rehab because of Covid and said that he thought since I was in good shape before the surgery and I am doing well walking on my own that he did not think cardio rehab was worth the risk. I see how everyone raves about cardio rehab but I also did not want to fight him if he thought it was not smart. I guess I will just keep walking on my own for now and will ask again at my next appointment. My brother's family leaves this coming Saturday, I am so grateful for them staying with me for so long, it has been a lot of wonderful quality time together. My mom will probably come up for two weeks until I get my kids back from my ex's house. Although I do feel like I would be completely fine on my own at this point. I love seeing everyone's updates and am keeping all those who are about to go into surgery in my thoughts.
Jerome Hill Awesome update Lee. Glad to hear things are going well. I look forward to my return to my own pla ... Read more
Jerome Hill Awesome update Lee. Glad to hear things are going well. I look forward to my return to my own place on Monday after a couple weeks up in the foothills. I’ve not had the area to walk a lot without going up and down steep hills so having my own neighborhood with lots of flat streets will be a nice change.
Darrin Vohs That is great news! It sounds like you are doing really well. Even at 4 weeks you are still healing ... Read more
Darrin Vohs That is great news! It sounds like you are doing really well. Even at 4 weeks you are still healing and it takes longer than it seems like it should to get back your exercise tolerance.
I am not a Dr, not even on facebook, but I don't agree with your cardiologist. The program I was in took serious precautions and I never once felt at risk. I think it could be done safely and is beneficial. So there you go... two cents opinion from some random person on the internet :)
Rose Madura I am one who did not have cardio rehab. I was going to but then I had so many complications, I just ... Read more
Rose Madura I am one who did not have cardio rehab. I was going to but then I had so many complications, I just never did. I was ok with it. It's my journey just as it's yours. Everybody is different. Glad to hear you are doing so well. And it's such a blessing to have fa family that cares, isn't it?
Nancy W I recall that you live in a Florida where there is more open than other states. Perhaps your doctors ... Read more
Nancy W I recall that you live in a Florida where there is more open than other states. Perhaps your doctors caution will keep you healthy and healing. Discuss it ahpgain when you see him. Walking and when you are ready, going back to light yoga. Mix in a little cardio when you are ready. You are already in touch with your body as a yogi. Rest when it feels right! Patience , acceptance and gratitude continues to be my mantra. You are doing great.
Lee Wright Thanks everyone, I am going to wait until my next appointment and ask him again about the cardio reha ... Read more
Lee Wright Thanks everyone, I am going to wait until my next appointment and ask him again about the cardio rehab but for now I will just continue with the walking, the weather is starting to get really nice here so I can enjoy long walks.
Lee Wright I do have one more question, this might be completely inappropriate...but not sure where else to ask ... Read more
Lee Wright I do have one more question, this might be completely inappropriate...but not sure where else to ask this and I know it probably depends on each person's experience and recovery process...but here goes...is there a typical time period after heart surgery when it is safe to resume sexual intercourse? I am a bit scared because it raises your heart rate up and I don't want to do anything that will cause any strain on my heart. But I have been wondering about it...
Jared Takeshita Hey, Lee. Glad to hear that you're doing well. If your cardiologist doesn't recommend cardiac rehab ... Read more
Jared Takeshita Hey, Lee. Glad to hear that you're doing well. If your cardiologist doesn't recommend cardiac rehab, I'd recommend that you continue to exercise on your own. Just make sure that you try not to do too much too soon. Slowly ramp up your duration or pace.
As far as your sex question, Adam posted an article about that same topic. Lol. Here's a link to it.
During my recovery from aortic and pulmonary valve replacements, there were many memorable experiences. There were 'highs' during my recovery - my engagement to Robyn. And, there were 'lows' during my recovery - cardiac depression. That said, one of the more memorable experiences dealt with sex after heart surgery. As you would imagine, this is a a very common question when I chat with patients and caregivers about the recovery from cardiac procedures including heart valve repair and heart valve replacement. The question usually goes like this, 'How long until I/we can have sex after heart surgery?' Well...
Lee Wright Thanks so much Jared!!! How are you doing?
I shared this link to Thomas's post but thought I would share it on my journal as well. This is a guided visualization/relaxation that I did on Facebook Live ...Read more
I shared this link to Thomas's post but thought I would share it on my journal as well. This is a guided visualization/relaxation that I did on Facebook Live for my students at the beginning of Covid quarantine. I am sharing it hoping it can help others :)
I feel like Dr. Jeckyl and Mr. Hyde right now. I was doing so well after surgery (aside from day 2-3), feeling so calm, relaxed, happy and grateful and sleeping ...Read more
I feel like Dr. Jeckyl and Mr. Hyde right now. I was doing so well after surgery (aside from day 2-3), feeling so calm, relaxed, happy and grateful and sleeping through the night. And then all of a sudden I started having anxiety about falling asleep and now I am worried that the anxiety will make my healing slow down. I fee like I stayed so strong throughout this whole process and somehow all the fear and emotions are now bubbling up and throwing me off course. Before the surgery I was able to compartmentalize all the other stresses in my life and now I guess as life gets back to some sort of normalcy, I am having this sudden feeling of sadness or fear. I know I read about some other people experiencing some of this after surgery and I was afraid that would happen. But then I was doing so well, I started to think that I didn't have to worry about it and then it sneaked up on me. I am talking to friends and family about it which feels good and they are all supportive. I just hope it does not last very long :(
Adam Pick Hey Lee, I can relate to everything you wrote above. I experienced so much of what you are experienc ... Read more
Adam Pick Hey Lee, I can relate to everything you wrote above. I experienced so much of what you are experiencing. I was a rockstar the first two weeks after surgery and then I transformed into a train-wreck. A couple thoughts. You have just been through a major surgery. Your body is adjusting and healing as is your mind. Are you taking pain pills? Have you recently come off pain pills? That could made a difference in the early recovery. Also, in the beginning I tried to rush my recovery to get back to "normal". That was another pitfall. Sometimes we need to "hurry up and wait" as my wife says. I was just hurrying trying to prove to myself that I would be normal again and soon. The emotion side of heart surgery is very, very, very real. So you know, reports suggest that over 25% of patients experience cardiac depression following surgery. It's not talked about much. But, it should be. Have you signed up for cardiac rehab yet? You may be able to start that in the next few weeks. For me, and many others here, cardiac rehab has helped eliminate the concerns you identify above. I'm sorry you are going through this. But, please know, these feelings are temporary. I hope this helps. I'll post a few links below for you to check out.
For many patients, cardiac depression can be an unexpected and dislocating reality after heart surgery. Personally, I suffered from an extreme case of cardiac depression. My outlook was dismal. I had no energy. I felt alone and lifeless. Thankfully... That changed when I learned about cardiac rehabilitation classes and when I saw a therapist. As my mission is to educate and empower you, I recently connected with Dr. Marc Gillinov, the Chair of Cardiac Surgery at the Cleveland Clinic. If you didn't know, Dr. Gillinov is a heart valve specialist who has successfully treated over 100 patients from our community.
While the patient benefits of attending cardiac rehab after heart valve surgery are well documented, the utility of these post-operative programs remains disappointing -- as only 20% of patients who could benefit from cardiac rehabilitation are referred to outpatient facilities. For this reason, I contacted Dr. Ram Dandillaya, a cardiologist at Cedars-Sinai in Los Angeles, to learn more about the benefits and the issues that surround the use of cardiac rehab after heart valve surgery. (As you might recall, Dr. Dandillaya was instrumental in Kato Pomer’s MitraClip procedure.) I thought you might want to review the highlights from
I just received an interesting question from Bill about heart valve replacement surgery and cardiac rehabilitation programs. Bill writes, 'Hi Adam - I had my aortic valve replaced and the aortic root repaired. After leaving the hospital, I slept in a recliner for three weeks, had frequent dizzy spells, back spasms and felt like I was in a fog. I was told by the doctors the dizzy spells and the fog was the anesthesia. After the third week, the fog lifted and I was able to walk at a brisk pace for 4 miles. Life was looking and I was feeling good. Then
It, the anxiety, won't last very long, especially if you hold on to the long view. Your ENTIRE system has experienced some SIGNIFICANT trauma which will manifest at different times, in different ways. The common theme however, is . . . recovery. Your system is in recovery mode. Everything - that means physical, mental and emotions have been knocked out of whack compared to what your life used to be. Perspective will at times, appear distorted.
For me, I set my initial "long view" at 6 weeks - the initial recovery time. This is a time where you want to savor doing not much of anything.
This week is the begininng of week 6 for me, and every single day has been better than the day before, because I believe, of that long view. My next "long view" period will be another 6 weeks where I'll be engaged with cardio rehab. There, there will be trained people encouraging me, monitoring me and helping me stay focused on . . . ME!
Consider looking forward to completing your own "Long view" sequences knowing that "Lee v2.0" will be waiting for you - a version you might have never previously thought possible.
I for one, am limiting expectations of who or what my life will be like going forward, until after the first of the year. Given what I can now look forward to - there is no need to rush things.
Hope this has been useful.
Kind regards.
Nancy W I also struggled with strong emotions and some setbacks. I know you are a yogi. For me, some easy s ... Read more
Nancy W I also struggled with strong emotions and some setbacks. I know you are a yogi. For me, some easy stretches, breathing and trying to monitor my expectations have been helpful. I also had the back and shoulder pain which was unexpected. I found comfort in binge watching some good streaming shows, pampering myself with pjs and some treats ( there was no pudding in the hospital and I have really enjoyed pudding since home). Everyone’s encouragement on this forum was so helpful also. I’m now in week 4 of cardiac rehab, walking more, doing more yoga and even ran an extremely slow mile yesterday! For me, the expectation of physical healing from surgery and back to normal had to be scaled back and rewritten, several times so far. This is the most challenging and unexpected experience of my 63 years! But 10 weeks post surgery is So much better than the original roller coaster ride. Deep breaths, self care, stay in the moment and reach out to those who provide comfort❤️
Susan Lynn Lee - Most of us ran on fear, focus, and just plain adrenalin in the beginning. We were consumed w ... Read more
Susan Lynn Lee - Most of us ran on fear, focus, and just plain adrenalin in the beginning. We were consumed with getting through the process and everything else became background noise - for awhile.
At some point, we all come down from that feeling and it all becomes very real, very quickly, and without warning.
Heart surgery has been made more comfortable, but it's still a pretty big deal. While our minds may think - Wow, that wasn't as bad as I thought - our bodies take periodic opportunities to remind us that the're still healing even if we don't feel every step along the way.
Cardiac depression is a real condition and you have been provided with some great advice in the prior posts. As a supplement only, I would suggest trying this mental exercise each night before you go to bed. Ask yourself two questions: What am I grateful for, today, and what am I looking forward to tomorrow? It's just as easy to create a positive image of your future as it is a negative one - you control what you think about, so you might as well make it inspiring! Celebrate your successes, no matter how small, during recovery. You'll realize, you're doing just fine! Just like we always say - walk, rest, repeat - reflect, refocus, repeat. You can do it - one day at a time.
Please keep us posted. We're always here to listen. ❤
Lee Wright Thank you so much everyone, all of this is so helpful. I talked to a bunch of friends yesterday, cri ... Read more
Lee Wright Thank you so much everyone, all of this is so helpful. I talked to a bunch of friends yesterday, cried a lot to them and told my family. I had not been telling them because I didn't want to stress them out. But it was such a relief to share that I was feeling sad and overwhelmed. I think talking it out and writing it out on here was very cathartic. I think it was less about the healing process and more just an emotional release of how strong I made myself stay leading up to the surgery. I needed a really good cry and to write and speak about it until I got a lot out of my system. I slept well last night and woke up feeling a lot better. Thank you for all the support.
Today I am 3 weeks out from surgery and overall quite well. I did have another minot bout of the peripheral visual waves (can’t remember official name). ...Read more
Today I am 3 weeks out from surgery and overall quite well. I did have another minot bout of the peripheral visual waves (can’t remember official name). I am curious if most people who had minimally invasive mitral valve repair dealt with back pain for a few weeks after surgery. I still have pain around my back ribs, it is minor but I would have thought it would have been gone by now. Just wondering if that is something that others experienced and how long it lasted?
Bryan Savage Hi Lee, I had the vision issues you're describing twice. Both times were pretty alarming but they onl ... Read more
Bryan Savage Hi Lee, I had the vision issues you're describing twice. Both times were pretty alarming but they only lasted about an hour and never happened again. That was probably around then2nd or 3rd day of recovery. I also had terrible back pain that lasted for about 2-3 weeks and improved every day after that. I ended sleeping upright on a foam wedge I took from the hospital and that helped a lot. Hopefully it will all improve for you soon. It sounds like you're progressing well.
Susan Lynn Lee - I have auras, but I'm a migraine sufferer, so I had them before surgery. I didn't have back pa ... Read more
Susan Lynn Lee - I have auras, but I'm a migraine sufferer, so I had them before surgery. I didn't have back pain, but I had a lot of numbness, so it's possible I just didn't feel it. I hope your pain subsides, soon. Be well.
I am curious if anyone on here deals with low blood pressure, I know that is the more unusual for those with heart issues. I have always run quite low with ...Read more
I am curious if anyone on here deals with low blood pressure, I know that is the more unusual for those with heart issues. I have always run quite low with blood pressure and I have not been checking it since the night I got home from the hospital. That was silly, I bought the machine but I just did not think about it and kept saying I would check it later. But the last few days I started to feel a lot more tired so I finally took it this morning a few times and it was between 80/55 to 89/62. I got a bit concerned but luckily I had an appointment with my family doctor already scheduled for a check up about my low iron that was an issue before I even knew about my valve issue. My doctor, who I love, said he was surprised I was on any Metoprolol since my blood pressure is low, I am on 15 mg twice a day. He said to halve it and then ask my surgeon on my follow up on Monday. They took blood today to check my RBC count and my Iron. I had the blood transfusion in the hospital (still so glad that I had my brother bank blood for me ahead of time so that I know what was going into my body) and I felt really good for the first week after the transfusion. But now I am wondering if my RBC dropped or my iron even though I am eating high iron foods and taking iron supplements. I should get the blood results back tomorrow so will have more information.
I am definitely going to be better about tracking my BP and my HR/distance during walks going forward. I tend not to be a very scheduled/detailed person, I listen to my body more than watch numbers but I think for this the numbers would be helpful. I am going to try to get better at that for the next few weeks. Just hoping it is a simple fix to bring back the energy I had right after I left the hospital.
I did find out I am back to my pre-surgery weight which is nice, all that bloating is gone which is a pleasure!!!
Darrin Vohs I can't talk much about low blood pressure..... how ever I can give you a bit of advice on metrics - ... Read more
Darrin Vohs I can't talk much about low blood pressure..... how ever I can give you a bit of advice on metrics - Take your blood pressure twice a day morning around 10 and afternoon. Knowing how to do it properly will reduce the amount of variations.
HR/Distance - save yourself a lot of effort and get an apple watch - press the proper exercise selection before starting and turn it off when done and you will have a comprehensive log on your iPhone. (or use the equiv android devices is applicable) I think it is important to track your progress so you don't push yourself too hard or not enough. I found gaining back cardio fitness was a bit tricky and having a good log helped a lot.
Good news on the weight.. a lot of people (like me) gain a bit of weight at first and have to work it off which took me a several weeks.
Sounds like you are doing great!
Lee Wright Thanks, yeah, I am going to get a watch, I can't wait to get to cardio rehab so they can help me with ... Read more
Lee Wright Thanks, yeah, I am going to get a watch, I can't wait to get to cardio rehab so they can help me with tracking. I feel like if I get the watch, I will record the stats but actually using them in a helpful way is a different story.
Barbara Wood I've always had low blood pressure too. When I first started metoprolol (12.5 mg/ day ) I was told to ... Read more
Barbara Wood I've always had low blood pressure too. When I first started metoprolol (12.5 mg/ day ) I was told to take my blood pressure before taking it, if it was under 90 to skip it...maybe run that by your cardiologist? Congrats on getting back to your normal weight:)!
Lee Wright Thanks Barbara, I halved it and it went back, thankfully.
I am having a weird thing with my vision, this is the first time I have had this. It is only in my right peripheral vision and it looks like everything in ...Read more
I am having a weird thing with my vision, this is the first time I have had this. It is only in my right peripheral vision and it looks like everything in that area has a sheet of broken glass that is slightly moving over it. Has anyone ever had weird vision things? Were they temporary? Do you know what caused them? I did my longest walk ever this evening, maybe that was it. I am going to close my eyes and listen to a book tape and hope it goes away. I can see the wobble in my right periphery while I look at my phone typing this :(
Thomas Brusstar Yes, that visual "aura" disturbance is something I got after surgery. I had them very rarely before, ... Read more
Thomas Brusstar Yes, that visual "aura" disturbance is something I got after surgery. I had them very rarely before, like once a year; then a couple times a week after surgery, and often after exercise. I think extra caffeine brought them on sometimes. It is very disconcerting! For me they kind of moved around my field of vision for like 5 minutes, with kind of blind spots, and within 10 minutes they were gone. Those visual disturbances, optical migraines, are precursors to bad headaches for some people; but for me it usually ended there. At about 18 months after surgery they got less frequent, and now, just over 2 years after surgery, they are very rare. I just tried to close my eyes and wait for it to pass -- but it is very spooky at first. My cardiologist didn't really have any advice on it. He said some attribute it to "pumphead," somehow related to having been on that heart-lung bypass pump during surgery; but nobody seems to know. Search for pumphead on this site and you'll find some information. I can just say I'm glad that seems to have stopped, even if I have more caffeine than normal in the morning.
Darrin Vohs I had two of them in the first couple of weeks then they stopped. At first I was alarmed and became ... Read more
Darrin Vohs I had two of them in the first couple of weeks then they stopped. At first I was alarmed and became concerned. I learned they were optical migraines and they don't know the cause and they usually go away.
Nancy W I had a sudden momentary loss of vision in the bottom field of my right eye 2 days after home from su ... Read more
Nancy W I had a sudden momentary loss of vision in the bottom field of my right eye 2 days after home from surgery. I was told to go to ER to make sure I wasn’t having a stroke- MRI ruled out stroke but I was referred to an ophthalmologist. He said I had a mini stroke in my eye ( a blood clot) that I problem massaged out by rubbing my eyelid. Can’t hurt to contact the surgeon or cardiologist to get their opinion.
Lee Wright I am feeling better now after a rest and the vision thing is gone, guess I just walked too far and my ... Read more
Lee Wright I am feeling better now after a rest and the vision thing is gone, guess I just walked too far and my body was letting me know. Noted ;)
Lee Wright I just saw comments now, thank you will look up pumphead. I did notice when I lay down that I could ... Read more
Lee Wright I just saw comments now, thank you will look up pumphead. I did notice when I lay down that I could feel the blood pumping in the back of my head. I fell asleep on and off listening to an Audible and now I feel OK, glad to hear they probably go away with time. Aside from second night home, this was first time I got scared something was going wrong, not fun!!! Thanks again for the messages of others experiences, so helpful and reassuring!!!
Marie Myers Optical migraines are very common after heart surgery. I had dozens of them in the days and weeks fol ... Read more
Marie Myers Optical migraines are very common after heart surgery. I had dozens of them in the days and weeks following my surgery. They gradually decrease over time.
My two week follow up with my surgeon is next Monday, I am curious, what does the follow up usually entail aside from looking at sutures? Do they do any type ...Read more
My two week follow up with my surgeon is next Monday, I am curious, what does the follow up usually entail aside from looking at sutures? Do they do any type of echo at that appointment?
Darrin Vohs The surgeon just wants to make sure the surgery went well and you don't have any infections or other ... Read more
Darrin Vohs The surgeon just wants to make sure the surgery went well and you don't have any infections or other issues. So a few questions, a quick look at your incisions and then send you on your way in most cases. Basically I saw this as the handover to the cardiologist.
Lee Wright Cool, sounds uneventful which is welcome for now.
Feeling very grateful today, my list of gratitude is so long, but the timing for this with my family being able to be here, the repair, my kids staying so strong ...Read more
Feeling very grateful today, my list of gratitude is so long, but the timing for this with my family being able to be here, the repair, my kids staying so strong through it, the hospital staff being so supportive, my recovery going well, this site with the knowledge and support I have gotten, I am just in a very peaceful place right now...I hope I can keep feeling like this.
Darrin Vohs Nice post. I am glad you are doing so well.... Post heart surgery can be a bit of an emotional rol ... Read more
Darrin Vohs Nice post. I am glad you are doing so well.... Post heart surgery can be a bit of an emotional rollercoaster so when you are feeling down come back and read this post!
Adam Pick Lee, This post plus the wonderful discharge picture is the reason I started this website 14 years ago ... Read more
Adam Pick Lee, This post plus the wonderful discharge picture is the reason I started this website 14 years ago. I can not thank you enough for making my day and sharing your story with our community. I am so happy for you, your family and your medical team. May the 'peace' you reveal above continue in your recovery and beyond. Again, thank you!!!
Jared Takeshita Hey, Lee. Glad to hear that you’re doing well. Hopefully it only gets better for you from here on ... Read more
Jared Takeshita Hey, Lee. Glad to hear that you’re doing well. Hopefully it only gets better for you from here on out.
When I wake up each morning, I feel like I am back at Day 3 as far as my lung tightness and sore back. Is it common to feel like you back tracked overnight? ...Read more
When I wake up each morning, I feel like I am back at Day 3 as far as my lung tightness and sore back. Is it common to feel like you back tracked overnight? It usually is much better by late afternoon. I am wondering if it would be better if I sleep sitting up more. Well time for my morning nap, lol.
Darrin Vohs My back didn't hurt me but my lungs were tight for a couple of days. I did sleep the first few night ... Read more
Darrin Vohs My back didn't hurt me but my lungs were tight for a couple of days. I did sleep the first few nights at home propped up with some pillows. I don't know if it helped but it did seemed to feel better.
Tracy Fallu Recovery is a rollercoaster for sure. I feel it is our body reminding us that it’s recovering on th ... Read more
Tracy Fallu Recovery is a rollercoaster for sure. I feel it is our body reminding us that it’s recovering on the outside but doing it’s most recovery on the inside.
Jared Takeshita I was taking the muscle relaxers that they gave me and tylenol before bed for the first few weeks. I ... Read more
Jared Takeshita I was taking the muscle relaxers that they gave me and tylenol before bed for the first few weeks. I was a little sore, but not too bad for the first week or so. I got better each day.
Lee Wright I started using a heating pad on my back, that has helped. My best time of day when I feel the most ... Read more
Lee Wright I started using a heating pad on my back, that has helped. My best time of day when I feel the most like myself is 4-11pm, mornings are slow and regaining progress I made before.
Rita Savelis Oh gosh, I had lung tightness on and off for a long time. One step forward, two steps back. Recovery ... Read more
Rita Savelis Oh gosh, I had lung tightness on and off for a long time. One step forward, two steps back. Recovery can take awhile. A lot has happened to your body that you can't see. Take care.
I can add myself to the list of those who did too much on my second day home 😳. I went for a short walk and then went to go upstairs to go lie down and ...Read more
I can add myself to the list of those who did too much on my second day home 😳. I went for a short walk and then went to go upstairs to go lie down and I got lightheaded at the top of the stairs. It scared me and made me realize I can’t use the stairs unless I have been resting for a while downstairs before I attempt them. I was also trying to do deep breathing without the gadget and I think I strained my neck in the back right. I got a bit worried today because I couldn’t fall asleep last night my body was twitching some and I had this tingling in the back right side of my head. I went to eat something and then I was able to fall asleep. But this morning my neck was still sore and I did not feel as strong as I had on my last day in the hospital. I am sure it is that I just overdid it and strained my neck some but my mind did spiral a bit, I started wondering if I had a very minor stroke and that was the tingling feeling in my head. My right hand did not seem as strong but probably just the stitches healing more. Anyway, I am definitely going to take it easy. I have learned my lesson quickly!!!
Steven Methot Do you want us to remind you on a regular basis? ;)
Pat Bluemel Try to limit trips upstairs to once or twice a day for a while, and definitely not right after the wa ... Read more
Pat Bluemel Try to limit trips upstairs to once or twice a day for a while, and definitely not right after the walk. I am 2 months out and still get the neck tingling. I too worried it was a stroke. You'll get more aches and pains as muscles come back online. Take it easy!
Pat Bluemel Also, sleep is going to be all messed up for a while. Don't fret about it, embrace it earlier than la ... Read more
Pat Bluemel Also, sleep is going to be all messed up for a while. Don't fret about it, embrace it earlier than later. It's alone time in our brains and that can get tense/anxiety inducing. Consider headphones w/ light music or a podcast or something to distract with the insomnia. I've slept on every couch and bed at our house. Tylenol PM helps too.
Tracy Fallu As scary as the moments feel to you, it is all familiar. Remember your body went through major trauma ... Read more
Tracy Fallu As scary as the moments feel to you, it is all familiar. Remember your body went through major trauma and will most definitely let you know when you over do it. Adjusting to being at home definitely takes time; especially when there are no longer medical staff available for questions. Your only job right now is to rest and walk around the house. Your sleep will be messed up for a while. Sleep when your body wants to sleep, it truly doesn’t matter the time of day. Take care, be well and give yourself grace.
Darrin Vohs Euphoria of a successful surgery meet reality of recovering from the car wreck that is your post surg ... Read more
Darrin Vohs Euphoria of a successful surgery meet reality of recovering from the car wreck that is your post surgery body! Just keep plugging away and everyday will get better bit by bit.
Susan Lynn Well said, Darrin! That about sums it up! Take care of yourself, Lee! You've already made great pr ... Read more
Susan Lynn Well said, Darrin! That about sums it up! Take care of yourself, Lee! You've already made great progress. Slow and steady definitely wins this race.
Lee Wright Thanks everyone, that weird feeling went away thank goodness!!! I do find it funny how soon after I ... Read more
Lee Wright Thanks everyone, that weird feeling went away thank goodness!!! I do find it funny how soon after I get up in the morning that I need a nap, lol.
Barbara Wood Sounds like you're having a good recovery. The first week or two I would eat breakfast, take a shower ... Read more
Barbara Wood Sounds like you're having a good recovery. The first week or two I would eat breakfast, take a shower, get dressed & go back to bed for a 1/2 hour nap! Take care Lee:).
Thanks for the positive notes 🙏🏻. I am waiting for them to remove my dressing so I can take my first shower, so excited. I slept a lot last night and ...Read more
Thanks for the positive notes 🙏🏻. I am waiting for them to remove my dressing so I can take my first shower, so excited. I slept a lot last night and I can tell that my chest feels tighter this morning, think too much sleep in a row must let your lungs revert back some. If all goes well this afternoon, I think I will get out of the hospital today. I was just telling my brother how crazy it is that I can fall back asleep right after they come prick my finger and check BP in the middle of the night. It almost becomes normalized after a few days but will be nice not to have that at home. I am surprised at how much water weight I still have, my feet and legs are still a bit swollen, I am 15 lbs heavier than when I came in, lol. And it is mostly water because I have not had a huge appetite aside from one maybe two meals a day. But overall I am feeling very optimistic, only taking Tylenol about 3 times every 24 hours. I can’t wait to see my kids, SIL and nieces at home, they have really done well while my brother and I have been down in Ft. Lauderdale. So that is my most recent recap, I am going to start documenting my BP and walking, have not really done that, let them track all that till now. One funny thing, I was brushing my teeth last night and the guy who monitors my portable EKG machine came running in, turns out the movement of brushing your teeth makes the machine freak out a bit, he looked so worried, I felt bad. Signing off for now, thanks again to everyone for all their support and all the knowledge I gained of what to expect before I arrived, made a huge difference!!!
Darrin Vohs Congratulations again Lee! That sounds like fantastic progress. The best thing in the world is to ... Read more
Darrin Vohs Congratulations again Lee! That sounds like fantastic progress. The best thing in the world is to go back to your own home and family!
I would not be surprised if they were to give you a diuretic before you leave.
On tracking walks...I use an apple watch to track movement, work outs, heart rate, etc. It is awesome. It also has a one lead EKG and you can send any of the results to your dr.
Jared Takeshita Sounds great, Lee. They gave me diuretics twice a day while I was there, so I lost a lot of water we ... Read more
Jared Takeshita Sounds great, Lee. They gave me diuretics twice a day while I was there, so I lost a lot of water weight. Gaining some weight back now, unfortunately. Glad to hear that the pain is manageable. I had something similar to me when I brushed my teeth. I use and electric toothbrush and it made the monitor go crazy as well.
I second Darrin on the Apple Watch. I’m using a series 4 and it’s been great as far as tracking resting and walking HR. I use the Map My Fitness app to track my GPS distance and time.
Hi everyone,
I am out of the ICU, yay! My MVR surgery on the 22nd was a success and they were able to repair, I am so relieved. They were not sure if it ...Read more
Hi everyone,
I am out of the ICU, yay! My MVR surgery on the 22nd was a success and they were able to repair, I am so relieved. They were not sure if it might need to be replaced. The first three days in ICU were a bit of a blur for me. The afternoon and night after the surgery I was pretty put of it. The next morning I was able to be moved to the chair but my blood pressure was low, it always runs low but they think it was the morphine and Percuset that was making it drop more. So they moved me to Toradol which helped with the pain but not like the others. They had me on meds to raise my blood pressure and could not remove A line until I was off them so I did have one night of intense pain, I was determined to get off the blood pressure meds and it worked. Day 2-3 were very painful, my back and neck muscles were so sore and the chest tubes were hitting something in my chest periodically, it was all I could take to keep my composure. Dr. Herskowitz was my surgeon, he is excellent and he said because I had minimally invasive and my ribs did not want to spread open easily, that was probably exacerbating the pain. I am also very petite so I think the chest tubes were taking up a lot of room in my smaller frame. Needless to say, I am so happy and mostly pain free now that the chest tubes, wires and A line are out. For anyone about to go through this know that by Day 3 things improve dramatically!!! Just have to remind yourself it is temporary. I got a bit scared on Day 2, without the harder pain meds I thought I would never be pain free again, it is a mind game as well as a physical process. The nurses have been amazing here at Broward Medical Center. I have only had one night nurse on my most painful night who was not at all empathetic, she was just going through the motions, called her nurse Rachett in my min, lol. But other than that, I feel like my care has been way above what I could ever have expected. So considering I have been very pleased with how I have been cared for. Right now my biggest issue is that my stomach is very bloated, I was able to go to the bathroom #2, sorry if TMI, for the first time last night. I have never had constipation and it is not enjoyable, feel like I am three months pregnant. They are giving me something to try and flush more out today. I do have one weird thing where I see a tiny little silver dot in my left peripheral vision here and there but it only lasts a few seconds, I call it my fairy light, it does not bother me. Assume it will go away eventually but I tell myself it is there as a reminder to be grateful that they were able to repair rather than replace the valve. The surgeon just visited and he said they are going to x-ray my belly to make sure there is no blockage, fingers crossed. I am blowing about 800 in the Airlife, trying to do it more now that the horrible chest tube is out. They have let my brother come visit me every day for a little bit which has been nice, hard with Covid to even get one visitor allowed. Really happy that we got that approved. I did also have to get a blood transfusion yesterday, my hemoglobin was low and not going up. My brother and I have matching blood types so he had done a direct donation for me 6 days before surgery just in case. I am so glad we did that, made me feel very comfortable knowing whose blood was going into me!!! So that is a recap of the last four days. So glad I am on the other side of all this! I should be going home in the next two days, once my stomach deflates, lol.
Susan Lynn Yay!!! You did it, Lee! Glad your recovery is going well. My stomach was bloated after surgery, t ... Read more
Susan Lynn Yay!!! You did it, Lee! Glad your recovery is going well. My stomach was bloated after surgery, too. I think it was just all the fluids and laying around. Walk. Rest. Repeat. You'll see steady progress. All the best!
Adam Pick Wooo-Whooo!!!! You got a repair. Fantastic! Thanks for the update and please take it easy as you be ... Read more
Adam Pick Wooo-Whooo!!!! You got a repair. Fantastic! Thanks for the update and please take it easy as you begin the recovery. No need to rush anything. Nice and easy, okay?
Darrin Vohs Yeah! Huge congratulations Lee. You are now firmly on the healing track. I hope you get out of the ... Read more
Darrin Vohs Yeah! Huge congratulations Lee. You are now firmly on the healing track. I hope you get out of the hospital and home soon.
Barbara Wood Congrats & welcome to the other side Lee:)!
Nancy W So glad to hear- yay, you are now on the road to recovery❤️
Jared Takeshita Congratulations, Lee. I’ve been waiting to hear some good news about your procedure. I’m glad t ... Read more
Jared Takeshita Congratulations, Lee. I’ve been waiting to hear some good news about your procedure. I’m glad to hear that you’re well on your road to recovery. Welcome to the other side.
My surgery is this coming Tuesday, I am feeling very optimistic about the actual surgery. I feel like saying good-bye to my kids beforehand is going to be ...Read more
My surgery is this coming Tuesday, I am feeling very optimistic about the actual surgery. I feel like saying good-bye to my kids beforehand is going to be really hard, I am dreading it. We have all stayed quite strong in the last two months but I think that is going to be the worst part. My brother and his family are here now and it is so nice to have them, it has added a lot of excitement in my house which is a great distraction for all of us.
thank you for your post. Sound very optimistic and that’s important. Glad your family is together a ... Read more
thank you for your post. Sound very optimistic and that’s important. Glad your family is together and supporting you. I totally get the saying goodbye to the kids, I felt the same way about leaving my only one but was not scared and placed myself in God’s hands as he is the one in-charged. Will pray for your successful surgery and recovery. Write as soon as you can, God bless you
Rita Savelis It's okay to be scared and to let your kids see how you feel. It's scary, and then you move forward. ... Read more
Rita Savelis It's okay to be scared and to let your kids see how you feel. It's scary, and then you move forward.
Susan Lynn Lee - You're emotionally exactly where you should be two days before surgery - optimistic! It's not ... Read more
Susan Lynn Lee - You're emotionally exactly where you should be two days before surgery - optimistic! It's not easy to say good-bye to your loved ones, for sure, but it's a small price to pay for your good health! Remember, you'll feel like you had a quick nap - a moment in time - and it will all be behind you. Look forward to enjoying your family when you get home. You'll all be able to breathe easier when your procedure is in the rear view mirror! Wishing you all the best - we'll be here waiting for you, too!
I got my CT scan results yesterday and it came back with no calcification which is good news. There was something in there about an irregular shape of something ...Read more
I got my CT scan results yesterday and it came back with no calcification which is good news. There was something in there about an irregular shape of something in my heart, waiting to speak to my surgeon about the report and whether he thinks that will create any issues in surgery. That set me back a bit emotionally, just felt like I could not take anymore news about things not being right with my heart. Definitely having a little bit of pity party for myself today.
Susan Lynn Lee - It can feel overwhelming to get more news that you're not expecting, but it's always better to ... Read more
Susan Lynn Lee - It can feel overwhelming to get more news that you're not expecting, but it's always better to know. If it's something your surgeon needs to address during this surgery, he/she will do just that. You're going to do great!! Keep those spirits up!
Jared Takeshita You got this, Lee. Sorry to hear about the irregularity, but now they’ll have a better idea of how ... Read more
Jared Takeshita You got this, Lee. Sorry to hear about the irregularity, but now they’ll have a better idea of how to get in there and get you fixed up. We’re here for you. Stay strong.
Rose Madura I understand your emotions are raw right now but as Susan mentioned, it's best for the surgeon to ha ... Read more
Rose Madura I understand your emotions are raw right now but as Susan mentioned, it's best for the surgeon to have no surprises. Please keep us posted.
Valerie Herndon-Vitarella We totally get it! Hopefully it is not an issue at all, but if it is, the surgeon knows ahead of time ... Read more
Valerie Herndon-Vitarella We totally get it! Hopefully it is not an issue at all, but if it is, the surgeon knows ahead of time and can plan accordingly. Hoping you get an answer soon.
Lee Wright Thanks everyone, feeling much better, decided not to think about this stuff for the weekend and that ... Read more
Lee Wright Thanks everyone, feeling much better, decided not to think about this stuff for the weekend and that made a huge difference for my mood.
My next question (seems like I come up with a new question every day, lol) is about blood transfusions. Has anyone had to have a blood transfusion after surgery? ...Read more
My next question (seems like I come up with a new question every day, lol) is about blood transfusions. Has anyone had to have a blood transfusion after surgery? I am now worried because I have low iron, I have been on iron supplements for a few weeks and been eating iron rich foods but I am not sure how much it has gone up yet and I am guessing if I lose blood during surgery, I might need a transfusion. My brother is coming to stay with me during recovery and he is happy to donate blood for me. Is that something I can organize ahead of time with the hospital?
Marie Myers It is not uncommon to receive blood during heart surgery. I got 1 unit, and I am grateful to the pers ... Read more
Marie Myers It is not uncommon to receive blood during heart surgery. I got 1 unit, and I am grateful to the person that donated it. If you want to “ pre-donate” a unit of your own blood, that preparation has to be done in advance. Same preparation would apply to a directed donation, like from your brother. Do you know if he is your blood type?
Susan Lynn Lee - I had minimally invasive mitral valve repair without the need for blood However, the bypass ... Read more
Susan Lynn Lee - I had minimally invasive mitral valve repair without the need for blood However, the bypass can lower your hemoglobin, so they'll be doing a lot of blood work after surgery to see if you're rebuilding your iron level. Banking your brother's blood could be helpful and give you one less thing to worry about. You'll do just fine! ❤
Valerie Herndon-Vitarella Both my hemoglobin and my platelets dropped post op, but not enough to need a transfusion. You could ... Read more
Valerie Herndon-Vitarella Both my hemoglobin and my platelets dropped post op, but not enough to need a transfusion. You could check with the hospital about directed donations with whoever their blood provider is. Of course, your brother would have to be a compatible type.
Lee Wright Thanks, I just assumed we would be a compatible type, need to find out.
I spoke to a friend of a friend who had mitral valve repair surgery yesterday and it was very encouraging. She said that she has so much more energy than she ...Read more
I spoke to a friend of a friend who had mitral valve repair surgery yesterday and it was very encouraging. She said that she has so much more energy than she did before surgery and that gave me something to look forward to! She also said a reclining chair is nice to have to sleep in the beginning. I just found a used recliner on OfferUp so I am going to get it, will sell it after the recovery. She recommended putting things that you use regularly in the house on lower shelves before you go to the hospital so that you don't have to try and reach up (she had a sternoctomy). Any other tips or things you found helpful that you had not thought of ahead of time?
Pat Bluemel Multiple ice packs and a heating pad, a variety of food (you have no idea what your appetite is going ... Read more
Pat Bluemel Multiple ice packs and a heating pad, a variety of food (you have no idea what your appetite is going to be like and what will bring you comfort). I want all the sweets, nothing healthy:-). Comfy and soft loungewear. A BP cuff (I like Omron) a thermometer and an apple watch / fit bit type device to track your heart rate and steps.
Joan Hibo Hi Lisa,
A recliner is also one of my to get list. However, since I will be recuperating away from ho ... Read more
Joan Hibo Hi Lisa,
A recliner is also one of my to get list. However, since I will be recuperating away from home, as per my surgeons' suggestion, which is staying within the LA area for at least 2-3 weeks , I've decided to rent it. I'm still trying to see if the air BnB place I took will accommodate. Researched DME stores and found out they rent it out and will deliver as well as pick up. I did look at thrift stores and I found good recliners but I wanted the electronic version where it can sit me up. I'm figuring that part of recovery would be easier if I reduce the pain while improving and increasing mobility. Eventually one has to wean oneself from Pain meds, so I'll try to lessen the pain with this. More pain I believe is less therapeutic and beneficial. I also bought a cardio-thoracic brace that can help stabilize the chest during movement. If you have slip-on sneakers for your walking, that would be awesome. Who would like to bend after a sternotomy? Bought front opening brassieres, read Adams Book which really is a bridge to understanding post-op recovery. I hope you lined up your support team. I bought also my own pillow and a cushion that you can place on the seat belt so it won't rub on your incision. We may not be driving, but we still will have to wear seatbelts. Right now, I'm trying to live my life as normally as I can. That was a piece of advice given to me and I think it has helped calm my thoughts and made focus on the goal of this surgery. I'll be praying for you too.
Joan
Barbara Wood It's common to come home with some excess weight from surgery. I was about 7 lbs over my weight & non ... Read more
Barbara Wood It's common to come home with some excess weight from surgery. I was about 7 lbs over my weight & none of my pants fit - so drawstring beach pants, & soft v neck t shirts or tanks are my suggestion. My incision never bothered me but the area of my chest just below my collarbone was extremely sensitive & I hated having anything touch it. Best wishes Lee:)
William True Great tips so far! Be sure to load up your binge-worthy shows and prepare to watch them again once y ... Read more
William True Great tips so far! Be sure to load up your binge-worthy shows and prepare to watch them again once your head clears. I spent the first two weeks in an awkward daze that I vaguely remember....
Lee Wright Barbara, I am surprised that you said you came home with more weight, I thought I had read someone el ... Read more
Lee Wright Barbara, I am surprised that you said you came home with more weight, I thought I had read someone else say they lost weight in the hospital. I am not worried about gaining/losing weight, just curious what would cause weight gain?
Jared Takeshita Agree with everything above. I’d stock up on food before hand if you don’t have anyone to go out ... Read more
Jared Takeshita Agree with everything above. I’d stock up on food before hand if you don’t have anyone to go out and get it for you. I had my wife pick me up some chocolate pudding. Strategically place phone or tablet chargers with longer cords helps as well. You’ll just want to be comfortable, so loose fitting clothes are good for me.
Rose Madura My surgery was at the end of May 2017 and I paid all the bills for June. And a travel pillow will he ... Read more
Rose Madura My surgery was at the end of May 2017 and I paid all the bills for June. And a travel pillow will help with resting/sleeping in the recliner both in the hospital and at home.
Pat Bluemel @Lee - first surgery I gained 25 lbs from all the fluid, I was a bloated mess. They sent me home on ... Read more
Pat Bluemel @Lee - first surgery I gained 25 lbs from all the fluid, I was a bloated mess. They sent me home on lasix and it was gone in two weeks. Second surgery they actively managed fluid in hospital and I came home 15 lbs lighter. Mainly because I lost my appetite and didn't eat while in the slammer. Still about 10lbs lighter but not mad about it, needed to lose it anyway.
Barbara Wood Lee, I had my surgery 3 years ago & gained about 15 lbs after surgery - they pump fluid into you whi ... Read more
Barbara Wood Lee, I had my surgery 3 years ago & gained about 15 lbs after surgery - they pump fluid into you while you're on the heart /lung machine. I had a mitral repair & mitral surgery gains tend to be high, or so I've read. I lost the extra fluid weight after about 2 weeks home with the help of lasix.
Darrin Vohs I lost 5 pounds in 3 days... most due to the aforementioned lasix. After regaining the water weight ... Read more
Darrin Vohs I lost 5 pounds in 3 days... most due to the aforementioned lasix. After regaining the water weight I was down 2 pounds. I had the minimally invasive robot assisted surgery so just slept the first two days sleeping on the couch elevated with some pillows. After that slept in the bed like normal. I didn't get anything special with one exception... hydrocortisone - the areas where I had bandages itched and drove me nuts so I sent my daughter on a mission to get some.
Nancy W I was told I might lose 5-10 pounds during or shortly after my hospital stay. When they weighed me af ... Read more
Nancy W I was told I might lose 5-10 pounds during or shortly after my hospital stay. When they weighed me after moving from ICU to the step down unit the day after surgery, I was 13 pounds heavier! I was shocked- yes, all the fluid. By the time I left, I was back to presurgery weight and now 6 weeks later, I’m down about 6 pounds- my appetite is not the same. Pre surgery, I enjoyed a glass or two of red wine. Now, I have no interest in anything that makes me feel less “ normal” than I already feel.
Had my CT heart scan this morning and the actual procedure was pretty uneventful, faster than I had anticipated too. I did get lightheaded when the nurse put ...Read more
Had my CT heart scan this morning and the actual procedure was pretty uneventful, faster than I had anticipated too. I did get lightheaded when the nurse put in the IV, has happened once before. But as she was putting it in, she said, "Oh sorry, I am making a big mess." I am not sure if it was because she said that or just from the bleeding but I started to see stars. They put me in a recliner and I had some orange juice and it got much better. That was much worse than the actual CT scan :).
Darrin Vohs Glad it went well. IVs going in aren't a lot of fun in my opinion! I collected an impressive set o ... Read more
Darrin Vohs Glad it went well. IVs going in aren't a lot of fun in my opinion! I collected an impressive set of IV connections for the surgery but I only remember one going in - luckily. What is the purpose of the CT heart scan? Is it to determine the ability to repair the valve?
Lorraine Mobley They did a pre surgery CT on me as well, I think they just want to check your arteries to make sure t ... Read more
Lorraine Mobley They did a pre surgery CT on me as well, I think they just want to check your arteries to make sure there are no blockages or other issues that might complicate the surgery-they want to know ahead of time. My surgeon who did mine said "Mobley, you have the arteries of a 22 year old!" that made me happy since apparently I had the mitral valve of a 92 year old. LOL. Yes, bleeding can make you woozy, after my CT I had to use the restroom and the nurse disconnected my IV but forgot to lock the line so I started to bleed out of it in the restroom, what a mess! I was okay but when I opened the door my daughter almost passed out....
So the hospital coordinator for the surgeon I chose just informed me that they are not on my insurance. His assistant had told me they were, not sure how that ...Read more
So the hospital coordinator for the surgeon I chose just informed me that they are not on my insurance. His assistant had told me they were, not sure how that mistake happened. Anyhow, now I am probably going to go with the third surgeon I consulted with who is in Ft. Lauderdale, Dr. Herskowitz. I think all the surgeons I spoke with are top notch but this has been a much more complicated process than I had anticipated. So now my surgery date is back up in the air :(
Adam Pick Ah-yah-yah!!! So sorry to hear about this Lee!!!
Susan Lynn Lee - I am so sorry to hear that. You could have ended up with an astronomical medical bill, though. ... Read more
Susan Lynn Lee - I am so sorry to hear that. You could have ended up with an astronomical medical bill, though... I'm a big believer that everything happens for a reason. You'll soon be on your way with a new date and surgeon. Hang in there!
Jared Takeshita So sorry to hear that, Lee. Glad they caught it before your surgery and not afterwards.
Darrin Vohs You are very wise for carefully considering the insurance situation. Just for fun... so far this y ... Read more
Darrin Vohs You are very wise for carefully considering the insurance situation. Just for fun... so far this year my insurance company was billed $378K and I hit my annual out of pocket maximum and paid $4,400.
stephanie arnold as an " old" person in on Medicare. well I had to list my legal last name when I first was admitted. ... Read more
stephanie arnold as an " old" person in on Medicare. well I had to list my legal last name when I first was admitted. the joke part was medicare didn't recognize that name, because when I'd first signed up it was the last name I had had for 65 years . the 'real I.d.' forced me into the legal birth certificate name. I started getting real bills. for like a quarter million dollars! I freaked. well, I realized the glitch after checking my medicare card and got on the phone and called all the billing entities. they straightened it out. Medicare did their thing. if not for Medicare, I would be on the street.
One other question, has anyone shared information and updates about their surgery on Facebook so friends and family can follow. I have told so many friends ...Read more
One other question, has anyone shared information and updates about their surgery on Facebook so friends and family can follow. I have told so many friends and my family is spread out around the world and I thought using Facebook would be the easiest way to keep everyone updated. But I am not sure if that is weird or not. Thoughts?
Susan Lynn Lee - Your family can follow you on this site. You may not want your medical information on Facebook, ... Read more
Susan Lynn Lee - Your family can follow you on this site. You may not want your medical information on Facebook, but I have seen many people post there. 🤔
stephanie arnold yes..this is a genuine internet site. they can read anywhere. I'd recommend over facebook, especially ... Read more
stephanie arnold yes..this is a genuine internet site. they can read anywhere. I'd recommend over facebook, especially because you are revealing health issues, not necessarily records, but I think people besides your FB peeps can troll it. HVS.com seems more secure.
Jared Takeshita I post some generic updates on Facebook. I get a little more detailed in the Mitral Valve groups. If ... Read more
Jared Takeshita I post some generic updates on Facebook. I get a little more detailed in the Mitral Valve groups. If they’re really close and want to know what’s going on, I send them a link to my journal here on this site. Saves me from having to repeat myself too many times. Lol.
Pat Bluemel I built a small private group of friends and family close to me on FB to keep them updated and minimi ... Read more
Pat Bluemel I built a small private group of friends and family close to me on FB to keep them updated and minimize the follow up questions from all of FB land. I'll announce it to larger FB next month or so.
Rose Madura Friends and family can sign up to get an email whenever you make a post. It was a great way to keep ... Read more
Rose Madura Friends and family can sign up to get an email whenever you make a post. It was a great way to keep them informed. I don't do Facebook so was happy to have this site.
Steven Methot Facebook is tricky. Not all friends are friends and speaking as someone who worked in IT - it ain't ... Read more
Steven Methot Facebook is tricky. Not all friends are friends and speaking as someone who worked in IT - it ain't "safe" unless you know the intricate workings of settings on sub-menus of menus ... and even then. Generic updates work and ask people to PM for details and maybe point them here.
stephanie arnold that's what I was trying to say. I got off Facebook about 3 years ago because they wanted to involve ... Read more
stephanie arnold that's what I was trying to say. I got off Facebook about 3 years ago because they wanted to involve my ' friends' in recovering lost password. that bothered me. and growing paranoia. watch what you post because"they"are watching. with all the Inter connectivity online, I get ads, and articles concerning heart disease. I have other interest, like online shopping, so of course, ads relating to that show up too. I feel comfortable on this forum. it's not flakey friendy, share pictures of food and non essentials. that can be done texting or emailing your real friends. FB used to be fun 15 years ago.
Meredith Bray I used this site as a way to keep my friends and family in the loop. They could subscribe or unsubscr ... Read more
Meredith Bray I used this site as a way to keep my friends and family in the loop. They could subscribe or unsubscribe as they wanted, and they could leave me messages. I found a similar site that was almost all patients-only that I could commiserate my fears and anxieties and the grosser aspects of surgeries, all without offending the delicacies of Auntie Edna. So my journal was kind of the "cleaned up" version and didn't really go in to detail about how I got my period the night before surgery and how I was afraid to fall asleep because I was sure I was going to stop breathing. The people on the other site assured me I was normal. :) And FB wasn't as much a thing then as it is now.
Lee Wright Thanks for the advice, going to use it, much appreciated!!!
My surgery is in 8 days and I am trying to tie up all the loose ends. I just made a Will and Advanced Directive which is something I have needed to do for ...Read more
My surgery is in 8 days and I am trying to tie up all the loose ends. I just made a Will and Advanced Directive which is something I have needed to do for a while but this gave me the push to get it done. I am not worried about dying, I believe the surgery will go well but actually sitting down to get that done was more emotionally draining than I had anticipated. So glad it is done!
Susan Lynn Lee - I did the same thing. Glad I got it done. I had a will, but never did the Advanced Directi ... Read more
Susan Lynn Lee - I did the same thing. Glad I got it done. I had a will, but never did the Advanced Directive. It seems like every doctor's office asks for it.
Relax over the next week. You'll be joining the recovery club before you know it! ❤
Pat Bluemel Did the same thing it's good to have done. Try and get some rest and not worry over this next week.
Rose Madura One thing that was most helpful in my time in the hospital was a travel pillow. I did a lot of nappi ... Read more
Rose Madura One thing that was most helpful in my time in the hospital was a travel pillow. I did a lot of napping in the chair and it really came in handy. Jus thought I'd make that little suggestion for you.
Darrin Vohs One other little thing I did was to pay all my bills in advance so I didn't have anything due within ... Read more
Darrin Vohs One other little thing I did was to pay all my bills in advance so I didn't have anything due within a few weeks of the surgery. You got the big items done though - so you can relax and try not dwell on the surgery. My suggestion on thigs to bring to the hospital is an extra long cord for you iPhone/iPad charger.
Steven Methot We had a sweetie prepare ours and it included a power of attorney. It is more draining than you'd th ... Read more
Steven Methot We had a sweetie prepare ours and it included a power of attorney. It is more draining than you'd think, isn't it? And I often wonder if these folks, notaries, lawyers etc. might have a touch of the counsellor about them.
Lee Wright I actually used a website called www.trustandwill.com and it was literally a paint by numbers type of ... Read more
Lee Wright I actually used a website called www.trustandwill.com and it was literally a paint by numbers type of thing. I would recommend it if you have a pretty straightforward will, once you are happy with it, you print it all out and take it to get notarized and you are done for $89.00.
I had two consults with heart surgeons in South Florida who both said they could do repair/replacement with the minimally invasive method. Now the surgeon ...Read more
I had two consults with heart surgeons in South Florida who both said they could do repair/replacement with the minimally invasive method. Now the surgeon who is well recommended in Orlando has said he wants to do the full thoractomy. I am now on the fence of which DR/approach to go with. I really do NOT want the thoractomy but I do want the best results possible.
The local hospital for the full thoractomy surgeon is 1 mile from my house and I have heard wonderful things about him as a surgeon but it is not my preferred approach. I feel like I am on a rollercoaster with emotions for all these huge decisions.
If replacement, I have chosen the Tissue valve because I don't want to be on Coumedin. Since I am young, I assume if I get the replacement, I will have the valve in valve replacement down the road once this one wears out.
Anyone have different surgeons recommend different approaches? Anyone had the side cut minimally invasive approach and have issues afterwards?
Jennifer Winslow Hi Lee, I was set on a minimally invasive approach as the idea of a full open heart scared the daylig ... Read more
Jennifer Winslow Hi Lee, I was set on a minimally invasive approach as the idea of a full open heart scared the daylights out of me. I selected a surgeon based on his record and was also recommended by my cardiologist. When I met with him, he told me he stopped doing the minimally invasive and that he would only do Open heart. I was so upset I immediately started crying in his office. He assured me that I would get the best possible result and recovery would not be as bad as I imagined it in my head. He assured me that they would make the smallest incision possible and that the closing surgeon used plastic surgery stitches to ensure the least noticeable scar. I ensured him that I wasn't that vain that my concern wasn't over the scar but the entire process. After much consideration, I opted to stay with him and have the full open heart surgery. I couldn't be happier with him and his team. They did an amazing job. I also went with a bio valve as I feared taking a blood thinner the rest of my life. He assured me that he put as big of a valve in my heart as he could that would allow for a valve in valve replacement later in life should the need arise.
These decisions are never easy and there are so many of us that could share our stories and give some insight. I hope you find the solution that works best for you.
Lee Wright Thank you so much Jennifer for you insight and kind words. I decided to speak with one of the surgeo ... Read more
Lee Wright Thank you so much Jennifer for you insight and kind words. I decided to speak with one of the surgeons who said he could do minimally invasive one more time before I decide. It is such a big decision :0
Adam Pick Great discussion Lee. And, you're right... It's a BIG decision. For me, I didn't have a choice of ... Read more
Adam Pick Great discussion Lee. And, you're right... It's a BIG decision. For me, I didn't have a choice of the incision approach because I went for the Ross Procedure which is done via sternotomy. However, if I was to go through it again for an isolated valve procedure, I would focus less on the surgical approach and more on the surgical outcomes of the surgeon and the hospital. I would want a medical team that has a tremendous amount of experience with either approach to help me make that decision. Have you asked the surgeons the following questions, "What are your surgical outcomes for my specific valvular disorder using your preferred surgical approach? How many of those procedures have you done?" Having those answers/data might be helpful. Perhaps you already know that information. Anyways, I wish you all the best in your choice.
Susan Lynn Lee - If you have the patience and insurance coverage for one more consultation, you might want to ta ... Read more
Susan Lynn Lee - If you have the patience and insurance coverage for one more consultation, you might want to take a quick trip to see Dr. Lamelas at the University of Miami. My friend had his surgery performed via mini-thoracitomy and was very pleased. He's highly experienced in this entry and valve surgery. Best of luck! ❤
Susan Lynn Lee- Also- I had a consultation with a surgeon who was honest enough to say that he never became expe ... Read more
Susan Lynn Lee- Also- I had a consultation with a surgeon who was honest enough to say that he never became experienced with the mini-thoracotomy entry and I would have had a mini-sternotomy if I chose him. There's a difference between a medical need for a sternotomy and one that is recommended by a doctor who just doesn't feel comfortable with minimally invasive entries. Also, most experienced mitral valve surgeons can repair rather than replace it over 90% of the time. You may not have to worry about choosing a valve at all. Take your time and be confident in your choice. ❤
Peggie Perry Lee, my sister had robotic done at Cleveland Clinic by Dr. Gillinov. She is very happy. However, no ... Read more
Peggie Perry Lee, my sister had robotic done at Cleveland Clinic by Dr. Gillinov. She is very happy. However, not all of us are good candidates for this. I really had hoped I could follow my sister's lead and go with Robotic, but Dr. Bolling at U of M said I'm not a good candidate for it. Bottom line is I want the BEST procedure for ME that will give back good quality of life. If your doctor is recommending going through the sternum, it's probably for a good reason. GOD bless and keep us posted.
Steve Jovanovic Lee - I am 48 and had to make the same choice to go with pigs valve or artificial. I chose the artif ... Read more
Steve Jovanovic Lee - I am 48 and had to make the same choice to go with pigs valve or artificial. I chose the artificial valve because of its longevity. I understand I would have to be on coumadin but it beats going through this again in 15 years. Did you have an angiogram that shows blockage? Is this the reason they want to do a thoractomy?
Darrin Vohs Hi Lee, I would ask both surgeons the WHY question? Why are you recommending this approach and why ... Read more
Darrin Vohs Hi Lee, I would ask both surgeons the WHY question? Why are you recommending this approach and why didn't you recommend the other approach? One other thing to consider is not every hospital is equipped to perform the minimally invasive robotic assisted procedure. So that might be at play as well. As for the plan "B" I chose the tissue valve for the reasons you stated. Luckily it wasn't needed. Best wishes.
Barbara Wood I would consider which surgeon gave me the best percentage of repair vs replacement & choose the one ... Read more
Barbara Wood I would consider which surgeon gave me the best percentage of repair vs replacement & choose the one most confident of the repair, regardless of the approach. A repair is always your first priority. I had a full t & found it not bad at all...best wishes Lee, let us know what you decide:).
Lee Wright Thanks for all of the advice, I am going to go back to ask the two surgeons who do the minimally inva ... Read more
Lee Wright Thanks for all of the advice, I am going to go back to ask the two surgeons who do the minimally invasive approach some of these additional questions all of you provided. Hopefully then I can make a confident decision and just get myself ready mentally for the surgery.
I have my consult with Dr. Accola today, I am very hopeful that it goes well and I can set a date for my surgery. I feel so much more at risk with Covid now ...Read more
I have my consult with Dr. Accola today, I am very hopeful that it goes well and I can set a date for my surgery. I feel so much more at risk with Covid now that I know I have this mitral valve issue and I feel like the sooner I get the surgery, the better off I am. He will be the third surgeon I have a consult with, the other two were in South Florida and Accola is here in Orlando where I live so he is my first choice. Fingers crossed he can get me on the calendar in the next two weeks!!!
Adam Pick Lee, You are in great hands with Dr. Accola. He has successfully treated many, many, many patients ... Read more
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Adam Pick Also... I forgot to mention, we're having a webinar all about COVID-19 and heart valve disease this T ... Read more
Adam Pick Also... I forgot to mention, we're having a webinar all about COVID-19 and heart valve disease this Thursday. Here's a link if you would like to join us - https://register.gotowebinar.com/register/3133129161010071312.
Lee Wright Thanks Adam, I want to join but I have my son's band virtual meeting at that time. Will it be record ... Read more
Lee Wright Thanks Adam, I want to join but I have my son's band virtual meeting at that time. Will it be recorded?