Hi everyone, it’s been a while since I’ve posted. For some reason I wasn’t able to get on to post on my journal but I finally figured it out. The last ...Read more
Hi everyone, it’s been a while since I’ve posted. For some reason I wasn’t able to get on to post on my journal but I finally figured it out. The last three weeks have been quite an ordeal all. On March 11, I was admitted to the hospital with fluid around my heart. At 4:30 AM they did a Pericardial Window to drain the fluid. I spent five days in the hospital on high dosage steroids and came home feeling pretty good. Actually was feeling stronger than I had in weeks. I had two good days at home and started deteriorating again, ended up back in the hospital with fluid around my heart again.
This time they tried the pericardial centesis but they were unable to reach the fluid. So for the last week I was on high-dose IV steroids. I came home Saturday the 24th and have been feeling pretty good since then. I am on 60 mg of oral prednisone for the next six weeks to get the inflammation and fluid reduced. I have been feeling more like myself the past four days than I have since my OHS. I went back for a check up yesterday and a follow-up echo and the fluid is decreasing but it’s going to be a slow process. Problem is the steroids are bothering my second incision and my second drain tube wound has opened so I’m dealing with those issues. But I really feel like the treatment is working, lots of side effects with the steroids but I’ve got to take the good with the bad. I’ve been watching my carbs, sugar, and salt intake for that reason. Today I wore a heart monitor for 24 hours and returned that this afternoon. I will get a report on that next Friday. So all in all I feel like I may be conquering this. I go Monday for a follow up visit with the surgeon to look at my incision and the drain wound. I guess I just never really thought about complications after the surgery, my mind was centered on the surgery itself and it went well. I have read on here about so many complications that people have dealt with. It sure has been a rough 2018 for some of us. But with prayers and strength we will all come out on the other side, right? Now that I know why I couldn’t get on my journal I can follow up on some of you that are fellow journalists. I’m hoping everyone is doing well, and for all of you with upcoming surgeries best of luck. I will update soon. Debbie
Susan Killian God bless you, praying for better days ahead
Bonnie Stone-Hope So sorry to hear about your post op complications, but relieved to hear that you are on the mend.
P ... Read more
Bonnie Stone-Hope So sorry to hear about your post op complications, but relieved to hear that you are on the mend.
Prayers coming your way for continued improved health.
Anna Jones I've been following your story and am also very sorry that you are having a difficult time. Hopefull ... Read more
Anna Jones I've been following your story and am also very sorry that you are having a difficult time. Hopefully things will be looking brighter soon and you will now have smooth sailing in recovery going forward. Sending prayers and best wishes, crossed fingers and toes.
Charlotte Dowd Debbie, I hope you continue to feel better with each day. Hang in there!
Carmel Power Hi Debra. You have certainly been through the wars with your OHS journey and I can relate to your fru ... Read more
Carmel Power Hi Debra. You have certainly been through the wars with your OHS journey and I can relate to your frustration. Like you, I had a mitral valve repair on the 15/2/18. I ended up in ICU for 4 days due to low blood pressure and then 6 days in the cardiac ward. I had a micro bleed in my brain, a lung that would not re-inflate, Afib and ocular migraines. I also developed fluid around my lungs and heart. Six weeks out, I have turned a corner and feel like my old self. I even ran for 7 minutes in cardio rehab yesterday! My cardiologist said recovery is not always a straight trajectory and that seems true for both you and me. Stay positive! All the best. C
Debra Langford Carmel, we had surgery the same day. I’m sorry to hear about everything that you went through but ... Read more
Debra Langford Carmel, we had surgery the same day. I’m sorry to hear about everything that you went through but it’s encouraging to know that you’re already doing better than I am. How did they get rid of the fluid around your heart and lungs? Today marks our six week anniversary. I still have five weeks of steroid treatment before I can even think about doing cardio rehab. Please keep me posted on your progress.
Debra Langford Thank you everyone for your words of encouragement and continued prayers would be so appreciated.
Carmel Power Hi Debra. I think the reason I got rid of the fluid was that I walked/ moved every day from when I le ... Read more
Carmel Power Hi Debra. I think the reason I got rid of the fluid was that I walked/ moved every day from when I left hospital. For the last two weeks I was walking a hour every second day (about 3 kms). (I bought a Fitbit 2 so I could track how much I was doing a day). On the alternative day, I rested but I kept moving. I tried not to sit down for too long. I could feel the fluid when I breathing. Once it starting going, I started to feel sooo much better. And you will too. All the best C
By the way I am nearly 63 so we share that as well!
Debra Langford Carmel, seems like we have much in common. I too walked every day from the day of my surgery. But wh ... Read more
Debra Langford Carmel, seems like we have much in common. I too walked every day from the day of my surgery. But when the fluid set in I was sick. I couldn’t breathe, I had a fever, and felt like I had the flu. I think the difference might’ve been that yours was minimally invasive where as mine was open heart surgery. I am walking every day now and doing very light housework but I have been cautioned to be very careful because not only have I had the open heart surgery but I’ve also had the window which is a new incision that’s only two weeks old. Are you on any medications for your heart? They have me on metoporol right now along with my steroids. I hear that’s very common after heart surgery, I have had a few occurrences of A-fib which they fully expected would happen after my surgery.
Carmel Power Hi Debra. Yes, I had minimally invasive surgery and I have just seen my surgeon for the last time. He ... Read more
Carmel Power Hi Debra. Yes, I had minimally invasive surgery and I have just seen my surgeon for the last time. He said I can do anything I want and to get on with my life. I’m still have episodes of ocular migraines but they are getting less frequent. I had 3 episodes of Afib so I am on Sotalol and Eliquis ( I was on aspirin until the last episode). I’m not sure if sotalol is the same as metoprolol but it is to slow your heart beat. Before surgery, my resting heart beat was around 60. Now it is 69. My fluid issues were certainly minor to yours. I didn’t have any fever only coughing which I still seem to have so it may not be all gone.
Debra Langford Carmel, that’s wonderful news that your surgeon has released you. I too was on Eloquist till my fir ... Read more
Debra Langford Carmel, that’s wonderful news that your surgeon has released you. I too was on Eloquist till my first fluid buildup. The surgeon said he has seen a direct correlation between patients on eloquist after surgery and fluid around the heart. He hates it, I was immediately taken off of it. It’s funny how much we have in common, my heart rate before and after is about the same as yours. It’s a shame we’re a world away from each other. It would be great to meet you!
Rita Savelis Thanks for posting. And sorry about all the aftereffects. I know how that feels.
Take care Debra.
Gina Fiorentino Hi Debra, Im sorry to hear of these complications. Your attitude seems to be carrying you through, b ... Read more
Gina Fiorentino Hi Debra, Im sorry to hear of these complications. Your attitude seems to be carrying you through, but I imagine it hasnt been easy. Im keeping you in my thoughts... and visualizing the rest of the fluid around your heart disappearing and that your second would continuing to heal as to not cause further problems. Wishing you a speedy recovery. Xoxo
Bill Gillam Debra, hang in there and by the way, bless your heart!
Hi everyone, I hope everyone who has had their surgeries are doing well. I am doing pretty good overall, my surgeon released me on Monday. He says I can ...Read more
Hi everyone, I hope everyone who has had their surgeries are doing well. I am doing pretty good overall, my surgeon released me on Monday. He says I can put my hands over my head and bend over now. He also said that I can graduate to 10 pounds. I know I’m not ready for that yet because it hurts when I bend over and I’m barely lifting 5 pounds without excruciating pain. So the nurse in his office said just to take it at my own pace , I’m the only one that knows what my body can tolerate. I have been taking walks by myself in the neighborhood and showering myself since I got home so I feel like I’m doing well for 3 weeks out. I also prepare my own light meals. I am still on pain medication, 1 every four hours and in the morning 2 because mornings are very painful. I found out yesterday that my right diaphragm is not lowering like it should, it’s raised which is making me short of breath and I’m experiencing pain on my right side. The pulmonary doctor said that the phrenic nerve was probably damaged during surgery causing paralysis on the right side of my diaphragm, hopefully it’s temporary. Also when I went to the cardiologist last week I had to wear a halter monitor for 24 hours because of the 1st degree heart block and a-fib that I’m experiencing. He wants to insert a loop recorder but it’s too soon mbecause it has to be done under a twilight sedation. I am not recovered enough for that to take place. I go back to see my cardiologist next Thursday hopefully I will get some positive news. I’m really kind of discouraged right now but hoping that it’s all temporary and I am trying to be optimistic that it will all go away. I feel like I went in to have a mitral valve repaired and came home with a host of other problems. Has this happened to anyone else after surgery?
Jennifer McInerney I haven't had surgery but I am in the "waiting" room. Quite a few folks seem to have issues in the we ... Read more
Jennifer McInerney I haven't had surgery but I am in the "waiting" room. Quite a few folks seem to have issues in the weeks following surgery, but they seem to resolve with time. It is still early days for you. Don't be discouraged. Folks you don't even know are praying for you and sending you best wishes for a good recovery.
Anna Jones I'm very sorry, Debra. Sending prayers that your recovery will go more smoothly and that your pain w ... Read more
Anna Jones I'm very sorry, Debra. Sending prayers that your recovery will go more smoothly and that your pain will ease soon.
Carmel Power Hi Debra. I’m three weeks out from my surgery and although i was very fit going onto it and had no ... Read more
Carmel Power Hi Debra. I’m three weeks out from my surgery and although i was very fit going onto it and had no symptoms ( I had a mitral valve repair), I had many complications. I still am coughing a lot as I had to get my right lung reinflated. I don’t think there are many people that sail through this operation in the short term however, long term the vast majority seem very well. I think it is really important to focus on this point otherwise this whole situation can can the better of you. All the best for your recovery. C
Anna Jones Carmel Power, these are very wise words. Thank you.
Rose Madura Hi Debra. I had s host of post operative problems but in time, came through them all. Complications ... Read more
Rose Madura Hi Debra. I had s host of post operative problems but in time, came through them all. Complications can and do occur. The main thing is to not compare your recovery with others and to remembers that your doctors are well trained and will figure out what to do. Hang in there and keep us posted.
Rita Savelis I hear you Deborah. It's hard. Surgery can go well, but there can be a host of after effects, many of ... Read more
Rita Savelis I hear you Deborah. It's hard. Surgery can go well, but there can be a host of after effects, many of which will go away eventually. But it can be weird when your surgery is considered a "succcess" but there are other problems to deal with.
I certainly didn't feel "better" after my surgey, just different, and recovery was slow.
I ended up with a pacemaker, I had 4 pleural effusions, I was exhausted, I had insomnia, I was freezing....
It's individual and there is also a lot of emotional processing.
But you push forward.
I found that being honest helped me. I needed to write it all out and talk about it, and not compare myself to anyone else.
I appreciate your honesty. Keep posting.
Barbara Wood I had a couple glitches after a successful surgery too- pleural effusions & going back to the hospita ... Read more
Barbara Wood I had a couple glitches after a successful surgery too- pleural effusions & going back to the hospital for 3 days a week after I came home to have a cardioversion. I absolutely agree with Rose & Rita- recovery isn't a race, we all go at our own speeds. Don't get too discouraged, it will all work itself out. Take care Debra!
Well my last post was mostly a rant so I needed to tell about my experience on the 8th floor. I couldn’t have been treated any better. My every concern and ...Read more
Well my last post was mostly a rant so I needed to tell about my experience on the 8th floor. I couldn’t have been treated any better. My every concern and request was met with professional attitude and also with compassion. My RN’s were truly a blessing! My last chest tube didn’t come out until Monday and I was on Lasix to try and rid my lungs of the extra fluid. I was short of breath for that reason. My blood pressure continued to sway below my normal which is low anyways. This was a concern as my heart was having A fib fluttering going on. They had me on a beta blocker until I started having something called 1st Degree Heart Block. They then had to take me off the beta blockers and start me on blood thinners. They put me on Eliquis. This is necessary because your heart can throw a blood clot when it’s going through these events. My surgeon and cardiologist are hopeful that this is trama related from the surgery and will level out. The A fib could be temporary from the surgery also but I could also be prone to Afib because of my enlarged Atria. So because of these things they kept me an extra day for observation. As far as my progress throughput my stay I did wonderful. I was waking the halls from Saturday on and was able to get out of bed by myself with a small amount of assistance getting back in. I had help Sunday AM with my shower but from then on I was doing well by myself. I only needed assistance to the bathroom till Sunday also. All in all things went well and they said I was doing well. I actually got sprung on Wed, Feb 21st! Home at last!
Fatema Yaqubi Glad that your doing fine keep it up.👍
Helen Daw Great! And welcome to the recovery side!
Suzanne Finn Congratulations, always great to get home.
Debra Langford I’m so glad to be home! Getting along pretty well, pain is still an issue though. And still really ... Read more
Debra Langford I’m so glad to be home! Getting along pretty well, pain is still an issue though. And still really short of breath.
Rita Savelis The shortness of breath can stay awhile. It still is so very very early for you. Your heart needs tim ... Read more
Rita Savelis The shortness of breath can stay awhile. It still is so very very early for you. Your heart needs time to heal from what it's been through. Wishing you the best.
Well where to start: I had an excellent surgeon, he did a wonderful job on my mitral valve repair. He even told my family and Myself that I had a beautiful ...Read more
Well where to start: I had an excellent surgeon, he did a wonderful job on my mitral valve repair. He even told my family and Myself that I had a beautiful heart and that everything went well. Then starts my post surgery in the ICU. That was a nightmare ! I had one of the worst Cardiac RN nurses they could have ever worked that dept. You could tell this is not where he wanted to be working , I’m not sure why he was assigned to that department. First of all it was the overflow dept of the ICU but I’m not sure that had anything to do with it. He had trouble regulating my blood pressure so the call was made to my surgeon who instructed him to hang a unit of blood to try to raise my blood pressure. Because of this he would not give me any pain medicine because of my blood pressure. I kept asking over and over what they could do because I was suffering so badly with the pain, I could barely breathe it hurt so bad. I truly believe he got tired of me asking for him to do something for my pain So he ignored me when I called out. I ask him to wipe my lips which barely got a swipe of the corner of a wet towel. I asked for ice chips or water and I was told no. He and a coworker came in and moved me at 5 AM in the morning with no fluids, no ice and barely any pain medicine. The whole time while they were moving me they were discussing how they wanted to be in other fields of medicine, not what they were doing. I was then made to sit in the chair till about 8:15 till day shift was settled in. I was astonished and miserable. Thank God my level of care got better. I truly believe he set my recovery back. I did better the next 2 days but they weren’t managing my pain consistently. I was not truly happy till I got to PCU. I cannot say enough about the staff in that unit. Still here, still have a drainage tube, and still struggling with my breathing. Getting quality care now though!
Toni Z So sorry to hear you had such bad care. Hopefully now you can get better soon and get home. I too was ... Read more
Toni Z So sorry to hear you had such bad care. Hopefully now you can get better soon and get home. I too was given blood but that’s because I was losing blood due to heparin drip to get my INR up. Sending positive thoughts your way.
You should speak with the patient advocate dept before you leave about your lack of care. I get so ro ... Read more
You should speak with the patient advocate dept before you leave about your lack of care. I get so roused up when l hear people are mistreated. My mother was in ICU 20 years ago after having her aortic valve replaced. She was in Icu 90 days before she passed from bedsores and complcations. A few of the nurses were unkind and the patient advocates would help us make sure she had a nurse who was doing their job properly. You have to look out for yourself.
Ps feel better soon.
Anna Jones Debra, it is stories like this that make me worried about going to FL Hospital by myself for the surg ... Read more
Anna Jones Debra, it is stories like this that make me worried about going to FL Hospital by myself for the surgery. Can you let me know who the ICU nurse was, so that I can ask not to have him caring for me?
Nancy Surprenant Takahashi How awful, I hope you speak to someone to tell them what happened to you, that's just awful.
Gina Fiorentino Debra, just reaching out to be another person here wishing you better care in that hospital. I'm gla ... Read more
Gina Fiorentino Debra, just reaching out to be another person here wishing you better care in that hospital. I'm glad you have been moved to a better place. Now probably feels like not the right time to complain, but what a huge distraction to your healing. I hope things are going better now and getting more pain relief.
Rita Savelis Oh, Debra, so sorry about your experience.
I found the OHS ICU to be hell. Alas the main concern in ... Read more
Rita Savelis Oh, Debra, so sorry about your experience.
I found the OHS ICU to be hell. Alas the main concern in ICU is to keep you alive, not comfortable. I guess keeping everyone alive is already a big goal considering some of the cases in there. The OHS ICU nurses have to work under intense pressure, so kindness and gentleness can get lost in the fray. Their skills lie elsewhere. It was a hard experience for me as a patient, especially on an emotional level. I needed some time to make peace with it afterwards.
When I made it out of ICU and into a regular room, I could have yelled with joy, if I hadn't been so exhausted.
Wishing you a more comfortable experience from now on.
Barbara Wood That's terrible! Glad the surgery went well & the step down unit is an improvement! I don't remember ... Read more
Barbara Wood That's terrible! Glad the surgery went well & the step down unit is an improvement! I don't remember my time in the icu, & maybe that's just as well! Take care Debra
Susan Killian Hope today goes better. When you are feeling well make sure you make out an official complaint. Str ... Read more
Susan Killian Hope today goes better. When you are feeling well make sure you make out an official complaint. Stress not to get people in trouble so the next person does not have to suffer like this.
Rose Madura I'm sorry you had a bad experience in ICU. Personally, my experience was excellent. My nurse, Bill ... Read more
Rose Madura I'm sorry you had a bad experience in ICU. Personally, my experience was excellent. My nurse, Bill was very attentive and the overall care was great. Bill was excellent to my husband as well, patiently answered all his questions when i was unconscious. Not all nurses are the same and I'm sure the hospital would want to know about your experience. All hospitals - at least in Dayton OH - are competing for your business and they strive for excellent "customer service." I hope your recovery will go well.
Debra Langford I did speak to the head of ICU. My Doctors told the head of the unit I was in and it was relayed to t ... Read more
Debra Langford I did speak to the head of ICU. My Doctors told the head of the unit I was in and it was relayed to the UCU dept. I spoke with Bev and she took notes of my experience and apologized for my treatment. I was assured that the matter would be handled so that it never happened to anyone again. She was very apologetic and even prayed with me.
Anna, Florida Hospital is an excellent hospital, the care you get there is exemplary. I had the best surgeon in Dr Accola and his team is dedicated. Please don’t let one bad apple keep you from going there. I am not sorry I did. And Rita what you said about ICU is true. Their skills do lie elsewhere but a little compassion goes a long way.
Bonnie Stone-Hope My experience was very positive.
All staff were exceptional, compassionate and skilled.
Hi everyone. This is Demi, Debbie’s daughter. Surgery went well and he was able to repair her mitral valve. I should be able to see her in about an hour. ...Read more
Hi everyone. This is Demi, Debbie’s daughter. Surgery went well and he was able to repair her mitral valve. I should be able to see her in about an hour.
Tammy Pilcher Great news! Thank you, Demi, for the update. Continued prayers for recovery for your mom, as well a ... Read more
Tammy Pilcher Great news! Thank you, Demi, for the update. Continued prayers for recovery for your mom, as well as comfort for the loss of your grandmother. God bless you all.
Gina Fiorentino Hi Demi. Thank you for the update. I am happy to hear your mom's surgery was a success. My thought ... Read more
Gina Fiorentino Hi Demi. Thank you for the update. I am happy to hear your mom's surgery was a success. My thoughts are with you.... and also for your grandmother- so very sorry for your loss.
Anna Jones Wonderful news regarding your mom. I send prayers for your family and condolences on the loss of yo ... Read more
Anna Jones Wonderful news regarding your mom. I send prayers for your family and condolences on the loss of your grandmother.
Rita Savelis Amazing Debra! Wishing you both a peaceful week.
I just spoke to my sister and my Mom passed at 2:30 AM this morning. She’s at peace now. I am heartbroken and relieved at the same time. No more pain and ...Read more
I just spoke to my sister and my Mom passed at 2:30 AM this morning. She’s at peace now. I am heartbroken and relieved at the same time. No more pain and suffering and she is now with my father and our Father in Heaven.😪😪
Rose Madura I'm sorry you have to go through this. My thoughts and prayers are with you. May your surgery and r ... Read more
Rose Madura I'm sorry you have to go through this. My thoughts and prayers are with you. May your surgery and recovery be successful.
Anna Jones I am so sorry to read of the passing of your mom. May she rest in peace. May your grief journey be ... Read more
Anna Jones I am so sorry to read of the passing of your mom. May she rest in peace. May your grief journey be easy, and your surgery and recovery be without incident. You and your family are in our thoughts and prayers.
Jennifer McInerney God bless you and your family as you go through this difficult time. I hope your surgery and recovery ... Read more
Jennifer McInerney God bless you and your family as you go through this difficult time. I hope your surgery and recovery go well.
Civita Fahey May she rest in peace. She will be the angel watching over you.
Susan Killian I am so sorry to here that. Prayers with you.
Well I’m here, arrived at 5:00 as instructed. I am his 2nd surgery today so I won’t even be called back till about 8:00. Sitting in a recliner catching ...Read more
Well I’m here, arrived at 5:00 as instructed. I am his 2nd surgery today so I won’t even be called back till about 8:00. Sitting in a recliner catching up on Facebook and messages. I don’t seem to be as anxious right now, I guess I’m resigned to the fact that this is happening. Looking forward to it being over with! God is with me!
Sue Sanchez Grela Debra, God definitely gives us His grace and peace! Prayers for you.
Debra Langford Yes He most certainly does. Thank you for your prayers.
Well, I’m lying here wide awake and my surgery is less than 8 hours away. Seeing my name on the upcoming surgeries is surreal. I have to be at the hospital ...Read more
Well, I’m lying here wide awake and my surgery is less than 8 hours away. Seeing my name on the upcoming surgeries is surreal. I have to be at the hospital @ 5:00 AM not to mention my surgical scrub shower before I leave. I don’t see much sleep tonight. Very anxious!
Tammy Pilcher Hi Debra, I had my BAV replaced Oct. 2014 and Dr. Accola was my surgeon. He is wonderful! You are i ... Read more
Tammy Pilcher Hi Debra, I had my BAV replaced Oct. 2014 and Dr. Accola was my surgeon. He is wonderful! You are in great hands! This is the scripture I took to the hospital with me, "For I the Lord thy God will hold thy right hand, saying unto thee, fear not, I will help thee." Isaiah 41:13. Blessings, Tammy
Just think, tomorrow at this time you will be a new woman with all the latest bells and whistles. Tim ... Read more
Just think, tomorrow at this time you will be a new woman with all the latest bells and whistles. Time passes very slow at this point, but it will warp speed once you get to the hospital,and, before you know it you will be home. Prayers your way.
Best Regards,
Karen
Gina Fiorentino Debra, I am keeping you in the forefront of my thoughts. I have heard very good things about your su ... Read more
Gina Fiorentino Debra, I am keeping you in the forefront of my thoughts. I have heard very good things about your surgeon. Wishing you well tomorrow.
Sophia Ridley Debra, I had my MV repaired in Nov 2015. My atrium was emlarged just like yours. I can tell you that ... Read more
Sophia Ridley Debra, I had my MV repaired in Nov 2015. My atrium was emlarged just like yours. I can tell you that the before and now is a difference as night and day, and atriums can go back to normal. I remember that last night, but I woke from little sleep resigned to the surgery. Every day I thank that I had it. We are all here for you as you recover. I wish you the very best.
Lisa Ferguson Thinking of you tonight and wishing you all the best tomorrow! Please keep us posted. I'm sure it w ... Read more
Lisa Ferguson Thinking of you tonight and wishing you all the best tomorrow! Please keep us posted. I'm sure it will be a relief to be on the other side of this recovering. Good luck and don't forget this group is a great source of help for the many questions that come up in recovery! You are not alone!
Debra Langford Thank you for all the comments. What a great help this journal has been! This has been a great help a ... Read more
Debra Langford Thank you for all the comments. What a great help this journal has been! This has been a great help as I’m sitting here waiting to be called back.
Well, 2 more days before my surgery, I’ve been keeping busy. My mom is on the decline and all life saving measures have been stopped. It’s only a matter ...Read more
Well, 2 more days before my surgery, I’ve been keeping busy. My mom is on the decline and all life saving measures have been stopped. It’s only a matter of time now and she will join my father and be with the Lord. Sunday night I made her Strawberry freezer jam. It was my way of thinking of her knowing I can’t be there. My house is clean, laundry done and today is my pre op. I pick up a dear friend later today who is flying in from Maryland for my surgery. Anxiety levels are high. She’ll be good for me.
Rita Savelis You're amazing Debra. Wishing you the best.
Gina Fiorentino Thinking of you. I'm so very sorry to hear about your mom. Although we cant control the timing of li ... Read more
Gina Fiorentino Thinking of you. I'm so very sorry to hear about your mom. Although we cant control the timing of life- I feel she is being taken care of- as we are all part of a tapestry and larger plan. I wish you peace.
I loved your strawberry jam photo and your intention behind making it now. I will keep you in my thoughts on the 15th and do wish you a very smooth surgery.
Debra Langford Thank you Rita and Gina! Gina, you made me tear up. This is such a difficult time, you’re so very t ... Read more
Debra Langford Thank you Rita and Gina! Gina, you made me tear up. This is such a difficult time, you’re so very thoughtful.
Elaine Phares Enough stress with the surgery itself OR your mom's situation. To deal with BOTH simultaneously is al ... Read more
Elaine Phares Enough stress with the surgery itself OR your mom's situation. To deal with BOTH simultaneously is almost unimaginable. I will be thinking of you.
So I only have 6 more days till my surgery, getting more anxious by the day. To add to my anxiety my Mom is in the hospital and the doctors say she may not ...Read more
So I only have 6 more days till my surgery, getting more anxious by the day. To add to my anxiety my Mom is in the hospital and the doctors say she may not make it another week. She lives in Pennsylvania, I’m in Florida so there’s no way I can go home. I have put it in the Lords hands. This truly sucks right now.😪
Fatema Yaqubi Sorry to hear about your Mom, you said it right to put it in the Lords hands, I will pray for you.
Susan Killian I will pray for you too, I am a caregiver for my Dad and worry what will happen even during my operat ... Read more
Susan Killian I will pray for you too, I am a caregiver for my Dad and worry what will happen even during my operation.
Civita Fahey I'm sorry to hear about your mom.. This only adds to your anxiety.. I will pray for both you.
I am 3 weeks out from my mitral valve surgery. The anticipation is overwhelming, just thinking about it makes me tear up. But yesterday I found out that 2 of ...Read more
I am 3 weeks out from my mitral valve surgery. The anticipation is overwhelming, just thinking about it makes me tear up. But yesterday I found out that 2 of my besties are coming for my surgery. I can’t tell you how much that means. I have a wonderful support group here but knowing my friends of 35+ years will be here is good news. My daughter lives with me so she’ll be my primary caregiver and I have my late husband’s sisters( my sisters by another mother) here too, along with many friends who are offering their help. I am blessed! I know that I’ll be fine, I have my faith in God and I know I have many guardian angels. Unfortunately, with all that said it doesn’t take the fear away. I only wish my husband was still here to lean on and hug. I just want this behind me so I can start the recovery process. I’m not looking forward to this at all!
Don L Hi Debra, your story sounds very similar to mine. I do take great comfort in the high success/experi ... Read more
Don L Hi Debra, your story sounds very similar to mine. I do take great comfort in the high success/experience we are fortunate to live in the age of, and like many before us have said, the pre-op anxiety is the worse part of the process. So many great stories on hear for exactly what we are going through.
Clint Bayman Sounds like you have an amazing support system in place, and that's fantastic!
Clint Bayman Sounds like you have an amazing support system in place, and that's fantastic!
My partner always says this when faced with a fear or struggle: "This moment is not my life, this is just a moment IN my life."
It's a reminder to take a deep breath, step back, and realize that there is far more going on around you, and not to allow fear to overwhelm you. It's a challenge, I know. Once you clear this hurdle, you WILL look back and smile, knowing you conquered it.
Civita Fahey Debra, everyone on this site knows exactly how you feel. It's terrifying, but I found that my imagina ... Read more
Civita Fahey Debra, everyone on this site knows exactly how you feel. It's terrifying, but I found that my imagination was worse than what surgery ended up being. I know you can say, well, of course, you're done and how do I know I'm not the 1% that something could go wrong. But, as Clint said, take a deep breath, and have faith in the Lord and the team you have chosen. .They do this every day and they will take good care of you.. You have a wonderful support system so focus on the recovery. You will need some help in the first few weeks but then make plans for them to take you out to lunch, its gets you out of the house and moving a bit.. Plan on watching your favorite movies and reading some good books and just chatting with your old friends.. Be as positive as you can be.. you will find that as the surgery gets closer you will have a sense of relief and know that God has put you in the place for success.. In a month you will post your success and recovery.. if you would like to talk on the phone I would be happy to let you know what I experienced, it helped me tremendously to speak to people who had gone before me.. shoot me an email (formia0711@gmail.com) and I'll give you my number.
Anna Jones Debra, that is wonderful news that your daughter, sisters, and friends will all be with you. Being a ... Read more
Anna Jones Debra, that is wonderful news that your daughter, sisters, and friends will all be with you. Being a widow too, I suspect that your husband will be with you in heart and spirit. Sending best wishes and prayers.
Clint, I love what your partner says. It is very wise.
Debra Langford Thanks everyone for you words of support.
Clint your partner’s advice is on point. I will try to r ... Read more
Debra Langford Thanks everyone for you words of support.
Clint your partner’s advice is on point. I will try to remember that in the days to come.
I know I have a brilliant surgeon, I have great faith in his expertise and experience. My support team couldn’t be any better, I have many loved ones who have offered to help. It also helps to hear from all of you that have gone down the same path. Thank you! Civita, thank you for your offer, I may take you up on it.
My surgery date is February 15th. Dr Accola is 80% sure he can do a repair. I just met him today and I was really impressed with him. I feel I’m in good hands. ...Read more
My surgery date is February 15th. Dr Accola is 80% sure he can do a repair. I just met him today and I was really impressed with him. I feel I’m in good hands. His and Gods!
Repair is always best if possible, that's great news
Gerald Poulton Good attitude Mary and you are correct, you are in good hands 🙏
Debra Langford Thanks! I know a repair is best, hopefully that’s what it will be!
I have made Maryland Crab Soup, Ham and bean soup, Chili, and homemade Italian meat sauce with meatballs. Going in the freezer to make it easier for my support ...Read more
I have made Maryland Crab Soup, Ham and bean soup, Chili, and homemade Italian meat sauce with meatballs. Going in the freezer to make it easier for my support group to prepare meals for me! Very productive weekend!
Going to meet my surgeon for a consultation on Monday Jan 22nd. Hoping for a surgery date, really getting anxious to get this show on the road. Scared to death ...Read more
Going to meet my surgeon for a consultation on Monday Jan 22nd. Hoping for a surgery date, really getting anxious to get this show on the road. Scared to death but wanting to get better!
Martha Kaczala Hi Debra,
I will keep you in my prayers. Good Luck on Monday!
Adam Pick Dr. Accola is the Man! He has helped SOOOOOO many patients from our community! Plus, he's a great g ... Read more
See patient reviews, physician biography and videos of Dr. Kevin Accola, heart surgeon, with phone number and address in Orlando, Florida.
Therese ODell You will love Dr. Accola! Having my aortic valve replaced by him on February 6th. He is very kind ... Read more
Therese ODell You will love Dr. Accola! Having my aortic valve replaced by him on February 6th. He is very kind and reassuring as well as very informative.
Anna Jones I'm thinking of using Dr. Accola too. Have a great meeting with your surgeon. I hope you will get a ... Read more
Anna Jones I'm thinking of using Dr. Accola too. Have a great meeting with your surgeon. I hope you will get all your questions answered and your concerns addressed. Sending prayers and best wishes.
Nancy Surprenant Takahashi Hi Debra, I can understand your statement as I am right behind you, scared but wanting to get this show on the road to start feeling better. Wishing you the best and you're not alone on this journey.
Debra Langford Thanks everyone! I have total confidence in Dr Accola and I haven’t met him yet. Adam, I have watch ... Read more
Debra Langford Thanks everyone! I have total confidence in Dr Accola and I haven’t met him yet. Adam, I have watched your video interviews with him and read tons of testimonials. I’m looking forward to meeting him, I’ve heard nothing but good about him. Therese, I wish you well with your Aortic valve replacement. Prayers for a speedy recovery. We’ll have to communicate through our recovery.
Therese ODell Absolutely! I will post as soon as I am able, or perhaps my sister will post for me!
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Prayers coming your way for continued improved health.
By the way I am nearly 63 so we share that as well!
Take care Debra.