Hi all,
I will probably continue to pop in and out. The site was such a blessing before and after my surgery. I send out prayers to upcoming surgeries and ...Read more
Hi all,
I will probably continue to pop in and out. The site was such a blessing before and after my surgery. I send out prayers to upcoming surgeries and people recovering from surgery.
Barbara Laurie Angela, Congratulations 🎉🎊 Hope things are well with you!
Has anyone suffered hair loss since their open heart surgery?
Barbara Laurie All my hair tumbled out of my head, horrible. No regrowth yet!
Best Regards❤️
Rita Savelis Yes, about a year later I had a lot of hair falling out (but not as much as Barb). I couldn't figure ... Read more
Rita Savelis Yes, about a year later I had a lot of hair falling out (but not as much as Barb). I couldn't figure out if it was meds related or what. There are so many things that can cause hair loss.
Having lost my hair impermanently from chemotherapy and permanently (parts of it) from radiation therapy in the past, I have much much empathy for those who go through this. It can be hard to buck up and be strong when shit happens.
Diane Zeigler My hair didn't come out, but now it is curly! I have always had straight hair.
Marie Leighton My hair has been falling out like crazy ever since I found out I needed surgery. Not sure if it is s ... Read more
Marie Leighton My hair has been falling out like crazy ever since I found out I needed surgery. Not sure if it is stress, increased BP Meds or both. If it happens after surgery, too, well, time for a wig I guess.
Marie Leighton Also 3 months after my nephrectomy in 2015, my hair started falling out. I researched it and read th ... Read more
Marie Leighton Also 3 months after my nephrectomy in 2015, my hair started falling out. I researched it and read that surgery can disrupt the growth cycle. This kind of stuff they never tell you, that's why this blog is good.
Jane Buttram i haven't lost any hair (s0 far)- 12 days post-surgery, although I had considerable thinning when I c ... Read more
Jane Buttram i haven't lost any hair (s0 far)- 12 days post-surgery, although I had considerable thinning when I came off of estrogen after having a hysterectomy. but, just like with old hormonal problems, I wake up every night with my head (only my head) wet with sweat.
Wanda Mroz I did hAve hair loss about four months or so after surgery. For a few months. I also had some loss ... Read more
Wanda Mroz I did hAve hair loss about four months or so after surgery. For a few months. I also had some loss when I had shoulder replacement surgery a few years ago. It was from the anesthesia. It eventually stops. I also use biotin supplements to help strengthen my hair. It helps and was deemed ok to use by my doctor. Glad you are doing well Angela... much continued good health to you.💞
Angela Hicks Thank you guys for the responses. Its good to know I am not not alone. My hair has started filling in ... Read more
Angela Hicks Thank you guys for the responses. Its good to know I am not not alone. My hair has started filling in. I am so happy to see everyone is doing great. I am truly loving life and I take nothing for granted. My heart valves are loud when I lay on my left side so I lay on my right side. I will be checking in periodically just to see how everyone is doing. This site was such blessing for me.
Wow! Its hard to believe it has been 10 months/12 days since my surgery. I am doing great, loving life and overall just grateful that God gave me an opportunity ...Read more
Wow! Its hard to believe it has been 10 months/12 days since my surgery. I am doing great, loving life and overall just grateful that God gave me an opportunity to appreciate the things and people I took for granted. It's been a while since I have updated my journal and I wanted to say hello to my heart brother and sisters. Thank you again for your prayers and support.
I started rehab on Monday the 29th and it was great. I had the best caregivers in the world but it was good to meet and talk to other people. The plan is for ...Read more
I started rehab on Monday the 29th and it was great. I had the best caregivers in the world but it was good to meet and talk to other people. The plan is for me to go 3 days a week.
Christine Oliva Glad you are enjoying rehab. It not only helps you physically, but mentally getting out, exercising a ... Read more
Christine Oliva Glad you are enjoying rehab. It not only helps you physically, but mentally getting out, exercising and seeing others in similar positions. The rehab facility I went to had a lot of people like me still working and raising children. It just reminds you are not alone. Good luck going forward in your rehab and yes a shout out to our caregivers too!
Angela Hicks Christine I met 2 other women today and you are correct and I know I am not alone and most of all I'm ... Read more
Angela Hicks Christine I met 2 other women today and you are correct and I know I am not alone and most of all I'm not crazy. :)
I had my 6 week check up on Tuesday and everything is healing up. I have been referred to Cardiac Rehab and still waiting for them to call me and set it up. ...Read more
I had my 6 week check up on Tuesday and everything is healing up. I have been referred to Cardiac Rehab and still waiting for them to call me and set it up. The best news is...I CAN DRIVE.
Emily Rowley That's great. Cardiac Rehab can be slow at getting back to you so might need to chase them abit...
Excellent news!
Angela Hicks Emily I will have to chase them. The referral was sent on Tuesday and I have not received a call bac ... Read more
Angela Hicks Emily I will have to chase them. The referral was sent on Tuesday and I have not received a call back. At the 6 week check up the doctor look at all the tube holes to make sure they were healed and I still have wound that is not completely closed. He also checked my lungs and pressed my stomach and chest.
I just completed physical therapy and able to go up the stairs and walk without a walker. I am going in for a 6 week checkup next week and hopefully I will ...Read more
I just completed physical therapy and able to go up the stairs and walk without a walker. I am going in for a 6 week checkup next week and hopefully I will be allowed to drive. The next step in my recovery is to start the cardiac rehab program. I would like to thank everyone for the prayers.
Debbie Bentley Is it hard getting use to the mechanical valve Angela?
Angela Hicks The mechanical valve is loud but I am getting use to it. I call it the sound of life and a lullaby a ... Read more
Angela Hicks The mechanical valve is loud but I am getting use to it. I call it the sound of life and a lullaby at bedtime.
Debbie Bentley I'm thinking about going that direction . Does it keep you awake at night ? Can other people hear it ... Read more
Debbie Bentley I'm thinking about going that direction . Does it keep you awake at night ? Can other people hear it ?
Clare Auten Debbie, sometimes it is loud and others can hear it, like my kids when they sit on my lap. I have def ... Read more
Clare Auten Debbie, sometimes it is loud and others can hear it, like my kids when they sit on my lap. I have definitely gotten used to mine.
Debbie Bentley Thanks Clare . I just can't imagine waking up and having that sound in my chest . I'm 44 so it's prob ... Read more
Debbie Bentley Thanks Clare . I just can't imagine waking up and having that sound in my chest . I'm 44 so it's probably the best though
So glad you are making progress, Angela! Hope you continue to heal each day and cardiac rehab makes y ... Read more
So glad you are making progress, Angela! Hope you continue to heal each day and cardiac rehab makes you stronger! Best wishes!
Tammy Pilcher Prayers for your continued recovery, Angela. God bless you!
After reading my daughters update I wanted to laugh and cry at the same time. She was my little soldier. I am so happy and proud of how she stepped up took ...Read more
After reading my daughters update I wanted to laugh and cry at the same time. She was my little soldier. I am so happy and proud of how she stepped up took care of everything and she is still taking care of me. I came home on January 5th and have been getting stronger every day. I am so grateful to be able to sit here and update my journal. This has been a journey and it gave me time to do self inspection and also made my bond with God and my family stronger. God is so good.
I will keep you updated on my progress.
Thank you to everyone for the prayers.
Melinda Queliz I am so glad to see you posting! I have thought about you often and hoped all was well. Mine is comin ... Read more
Melinda Queliz I am so glad to see you posting! I have thought about you often and hoped all was well. Mine is coming up in March and I just want it over with! PS--I'm from NC too, Winston-Salem area. Don't you even think about shoveling any snow!
John Murray I'm beyond happy to see you are back!! Your daughter was amazing. You did an amazing job of raising ... Read more
John Murray I'm beyond happy to see you are back!! Your daughter was amazing. You did an amazing job of raising her. Prayers to you heart sister.
YAY! I was worried about you. I am so glad you updated your journal and even happier you are getting ... Read more
YAY! I was worried about you. I am so glad you updated your journal and even happier you are getting stronger each day. Best wishes to you on your continued recovery! Oh, and your daughter is a gifted writer. Best wishes!
Liz Burroughs I'm glad that you're back! Also glad that you're home & getting stronger every day!
Caretakers are a significant part of our recovery.
I have been working on thank you notes for my surgeon and hospital staff. Your note reminded me to write a special note of appreciation for my wife and daughters' care for me after surgery.
Gregg Nissly I'm so glad to see you are back and posting again. I was worried about you. Your daughter is awesom ... Read more
Gregg Nissly I'm so glad to see you are back and posting again. I was worried about you. Your daughter is awesome. Happy Healing.
Angela Hicks Thank you so much. I need to do some thank you notes. I will keep up the good work.
Better day today! Physical therapy came and worked with her and she was able to stand, which is great after being bed bound for 6 days! She didn't completely ...Read more
Better day today! Physical therapy came and worked with her and she was able to stand, which is great after being bed bound for 6 days! She didn't completely pass her swallow study, but she didn't fail either. She is now allowed a full liquid diet, so, what's for dinner you ask? Well icecream of course! They decreased her tube feed, as Thanksgiving is over, so there really is no need to fatten my pardoned turkey. We will be willing hostages for at least 2 weeks, to allow her to continue to rest, and get back to her stronger self. The doctors are very pleased with her progress, and they feel, as do I, that she will get through this beautifully! Here's to the power of prayer!
Wonderful news! Hope Angela continues to make steady progress!!
Hello everyone. I am Necole, Angela's daughter. I am writing this update for her, as she cannot do it herself. Since I'm writing this, it will be filled with ...Read more
Hello everyone. I am Necole, Angela's daughter. I am writing this update for her, as she cannot do it herself. Since I'm writing this, it will be filled with some humor, to help me cope since I am not allowed to have a nervous breakdown yet. So, hold onto your hats, this is quite a rollercoaster. As you know, she went on for surgery on Dec. 2, 2015. What was supposed to be a routine procedure has been anything but. *UPHILL* they ran into complications regarding the size of the mechanical valve in relation to her artery. That led to a patch to make the artery bigger, and a (unexpected) bypass to relieve pressure on another artery. After an almost 8 hour surgery, they could not stop the bleeding, which led to multiple transfusions, and ended with a transfer to another hospital. *DOWNHILL* Once at the new hospital, she suffered from V-tach and had to be shocked 3 times. They were successful in getting the rhythm back on track, as well a stop the bleeding, but she was on a vent as well as ECMO. Whoa. Now for the *CURVE*, and some positive news. It has been 5 days since this ride began. She is off of the VENT and ECMO. She is alert and oriented. She is getting stronger with each passing hour. She is still on RVAD support, but the right side heart function is getting better as well. Left side heart is doing great. Mom decided to throw us for a *LOOP* today and became very depressed, thinking that she was dying and she wanted us to pull the plug.....I threw her for a *LOOP* of my own, and let her know that there no plugs to be pulled, unless she was talking about her temporary feeding tube! She thought she was on life support! *Curve* I let her know that not only was she NOT on life support, that she was on minimal cardiac support, and that things were looking good, including her. We have a ways to go, but I think (and pray) we are coming to the end of all the curves and loops of this ride. My plan is to help my mom coast along until she is back and (I suspect) better than ever! She left a (a very long) list of things for me to do while she was in the hospital, including individual texts to no less that 10-15 people, phones calls to specific people, monitoring her real estate company, and of course, updating this website. No pressure mom!! I cannot wait for her to come on here and read this update. When that time comes, I will be in a closet somewhere having the breakdown I deserve! Love you mom! I hope I didn't frighten anyone, as all that has happened is not common. This type of surgery is usually routine, but as my mom herself would tell you, Angela is an alien. A very feisty one, at that. She may very well be the one that plagued Ridley all of these years! Thank you to everyone for the well wishes.
Kimberly Biddick So sorry it's been such a rough ride, but your positive attitude and sense of humor really will carry ... Read more
Kimberly Biddick So sorry it's been such a rough ride, but your positive attitude and sense of humor really will carry you and your mom far. She is blessed to have you!! I will be praying for y'all. Thanks for the update and please continue to keep us posted. 💗
Elaine Cutri Thanks for the update with a dose of humor! Big hug for you! A gentle one for your mom. xoxo, EC
Melinda Queliz Will keep her in my prayers! Hope she gets back to herself in no time.
Terrie Syvertsen Necole- Thank you for your colorful and creative update you wrote for your Mother! She will appreciat ... Read more
Terrie Syvertsen Necole- Thank you for your colorful and creative update you wrote for your Mother! She will appreciate as we do, your efforts to make us aware of what has been happening in regards to her surgery! Thanks for adding the humor to a time when it is not easy for you to feel like sharing and for giving us all the truth in this part of her Journey. Glad she has you looking out for her and for being such a loving support. Hang in their lady, it will get better for you both!
Suzanne Moore Yowza! Hope all continues to improve for mom and that your breakdown is short- when you're allowed to ... Read more
Suzanne Moore Yowza! Hope all continues to improve for mom and that your breakdown is short- when you're allowed to have it, that is.
Liz Burroughs I'm glad that she's doing better now after such a rough ride! I will keep her in my prayers.
Kelly Weisgarber Thank you Necole for the update. Tell your mom we are praying for her. I hope things continue in th ... Read more
Kelly Weisgarber Thank you Necole for the update. Tell your mom we are praying for her. I hope things continue in the right direction and she gets stronger every day.
Tammy Pilcher Thank you, Necole, for the update. I love your great attitude and sweet humor. I'm so sorry your Mo ... Read more
Tammy Pilcher Thank you, Necole, for the update. I love your great attitude and sweet humor. I'm so sorry your Mom had such a difficult time and I'm so thankful she is doing better. Keeping you both in my prayers. God bless!
Gregg Nissly Wow Necole! Nice job on the post and that you for keeping us informed with good humor and a positiv ... Read more
Gregg Nissly Wow Necole! Nice job on the post and that you for keeping us informed with good humor and a positive attitude. My prayers go out to both you and Your mom.
Sophia Ridley Necole, my thoughts are with you and your mum for a smoother recovery. It's a roller coaster for the ... Read more
Sophia Ridley Necole, my thoughts are with you and your mum for a smoother recovery. It's a roller coaster for the carers as much as the patients. Keep hold of that strong, positive attitude, good medicine for all. We're here whenever you need us.
Necole, you are a rock. Your mom is lucky to have you. I am sorry she had gone through so many rough ... Read more
Necole, you are a rock. Your mom is lucky to have you. I am sorry she had gone through so many rough patches the last few days. Hoping that everything continues to smooth out for you all. I hope you are getting the rest you need while helping your mom. Thinking of you all. Best wishes for a healthy recovery.
Angela Hicks Thank you all for your kind words! I cannot wait for her to read them! I am writing a new post tonig ... Read more
Angela Hicks Thank you all for your kind words! I cannot wait for her to read them! I am writing a new post tonight.
I completed my pre op procedures today and everything is set to go. I have to be at the hospital at 5:15 am and surgery should start at 7:45. Prayers going ...Read more
I completed my pre op procedures today and everything is set to go. I have to be at the hospital at 5:15 am and surgery should start at 7:45. Prayers going out to all who are having surgery and recovering from surgery. God bless all of my heart brothers and sisters.
susan kotansky I wish you the very best!!! Waiting to read posts from you when it's all over and you're on the road ... Read more
susan kotansky I wish you the very best!!! Waiting to read posts from you when it's all over and you're on the road to recovery. Have a safe journey!!!!!
Sophia Ridley Wishing you my best wishes for an uneventful surgery and smooth recovery.
Cathy Slipski I wish you the best and a speedy recovery
Liz Burroughs Best wishes for a successful surgery! I look forward to hearing from you on the other side! I will sa ... Read more
Liz Burroughs Best wishes for a successful surgery! I look forward to hearing from you on the other side! I will say a prayer for you tomorrow. Everything will be fine. Take care. Liz
Jean Knappik Best wishes and prayers on your surgery tomorrow...prayers for a speedy recovery!
Doran Herritt Angela, can't wait to hear you r on your way to healing. Take care, drn
D. Carol Moore Hi Angela: Blessings to you! Read my post and BE INSPIRED AND ENCOURAGED.
Terrie Syvertsen Angela-I will no doubt be out walking my dog "Rylee" as you are beginning your surgery and as I am wa ... Read more
Terrie Syvertsen Angela-I will no doubt be out walking my dog "Rylee" as you are beginning your surgery and as I am walking among the trees snuggled in a warm jacket out in the coolness of the morning I will make a point to be saying a prayer for you to be in a quiet, safe and warm place with your surgery underway! I hope in wakening up you are flooded with warmth and the knowledge that you have made it through your surgery and will begin recovering in no time. Waking up was my most favorite, joy-filled time as I knew that I would be ready to face the time of healing and thankful to God and all of the surrounding Angels who will continue watching over you until you are headed for home! BELIEVE.......
Happy Thanksgiving to the best group of people in the world. Adam thanks for writing the book that answered all of my questions. I have said it before and ...Read more
Happy Thanksgiving to the best group of people in the world. Adam thanks for writing the book that answered all of my questions. I have said it before and I will say it again I am so blessed to have found this site.
Steven A Husted yes amen to that happy thanksgiving and thanks to adam pick
Mindy Currence I feel the same way! Looks like we are on the board together. I will say a prayer for you! Know we ... Read more
Mindy Currence I feel the same way! Looks like we are on the board together. I will say a prayer for you! Know we will feel so much better!!!!!
Tammy Pilcher Amen! I feel the same way, too! God bless you, Sister! Happy Thanksgiving!
Kelly Weisgarber I'll be sending prayers your way this week. Hope you're posting about recovery very soon!
I am 19 days away from my surgery. Trying to keep the emotions in check and I probably need to stop counting the days and start cleaning my house. :)
Sophia Ridley Hi Angela, I've been crazily busy trying to get everything done and I thought I was prepared! Taken m ... Read more
Sophia Ridley Hi Angela, I've been crazily busy trying to get everything done and I thought I was prepared! Taken my mind off op but feel I need to slow down. Going to book a back, neck and shoulder massage :)
Tammy Pilcher Prayers and best wishes, Angela! God bless!
Mindy Currence I am one day behind you and I feel the same way. Some days I am over-emotional, and others I am good ... Read more
Mindy Currence I am one day behind you and I feel the same way. Some days I am over-emotional, and others I am good. Today was a good day. Work on decorating for Christmas and getting your shopping done! :) And follow Sophia and get a wonderful massage!
Christine Oliva Angela, I did the same, cleaned the house, car, pets, bought some extra stuff for family and to make ... Read more
Christine Oliva Angela, I did the same, cleaned the house, car, pets, bought some extra stuff for family and to make myself more comfortable when I got home. There were still a few things undone, but guess what it really didn't matter.
It is important to be rested and well before you go into surgery so keep that in mind. Stay away from people with colds too. Also, its normal to be emotional, heck we all want to be well and live!
Take care of yourself and let yourself accept the hugs. People do care.
Thinking of you! I go in for AVR on the first! We will get through this! Stay strong!
Daniel Spurgeon Try to focus on how great and fortunate we are to have this sophisticated treatment available to us, ... Read more
Daniel Spurgeon Try to focus on how great and fortunate we are to have this sophisticated treatment available to us, and think positive thoughts about the benefits of the treatment. I forced myself to repeat these positive thoughts and it helped me keep my surgery anxiety in perspective. I wish you the best.
I have been reading this site and I feel so blessed to have stumbled across the site in my search on open heart surgery recovery. The stories have been so helpful ...Read more
I have been reading this site and I feel so blessed to have stumbled across the site in my search on open heart surgery recovery. The stories have been so helpful in alleviating some of my stress and anxieties.
Christine Oliva Welcome to this great site. I had my operation just over two weeks ago and can't tell you how helpful ... Read more
Christine Oliva Welcome to this great site. I had my operation just over two weeks ago and can't tell you how helpful the site was to me. Everyone has their own experience, but it is amazing what you can learn to do or not from others who have gone through it. Options, Options and Options in a situation where you may feel you have little. Good luck and keep on reading.
Enrique K Best place to get the info you need. Welcome Angela, I had my surgery Oct 9.
Kelly Weisgarber Welcome,
I'm all set for my surgery Nov. !6th. Good luck to you
Angela Hicks All of you thank you so much. This has been such an emotional time for me and all of these welcomes r ... Read more
Angela Hicks All of you thank you so much. This has been such an emotional time for me and all of these welcomes really touches me to my core.
Terrie Syvertsen Angela- Just one more of many to follow "Welcomes" as you head for your surgical date! May each day ... Read more
Terrie Syvertsen Angela- Just one more of many to follow "Welcomes" as you head for your surgical date! May each day that draws you nearer show you gaining more and more confidence and the knowledge that you are one of many special Heart Sisters among equally special Heart Brothers on the path to a Healthier Heart and continued Healthier Life! Looking forward to reading your progress as you make your way through to your recovery period!